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Old 14-02-2018, 01:38 AM   #271
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consider going for marriage counselling.
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Old 14-02-2018, 01:51 AM   #272
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aiya just eat ice cream, get fat.

he'll detest u even more, get an atb pregnant and then divorce u.

u use WC to pwn him and get alimony every month.

thats the best case scenario.

worst case is u are stuck with him and u waste your life forever more. songbo.

sleeping well nao!!!
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Old 14-02-2018, 03:11 AM   #273
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Just ask him to change to a new less stressful job and everything will be fine.
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Old 14-02-2018, 05:49 AM   #274
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no update?
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Old 14-02-2018, 05:53 AM   #275
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Is this a csb. The wife planned and paid for the wedding and honeymoon. Sound too good to be true.
If it is true, I think the root of the problem lies with TS. You are too accommodating and spoilt your husband until he is taking you for granted.
Dont be surprised, i saw real life gong kia who is very accommodating in a toxic relationship.
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Old 14-02-2018, 06:23 AM   #276
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aiya just eat ice cream, get fat.

he'll detest u even more, get an atb pregnant and then divorce u.

u use WC to pwn him and get alimony every month.

thats the best case scenario.

worst case is u are stuck with him and u waste your life forever more. songbo.

sleeping well nao!!!
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Old 14-02-2018, 06:24 AM   #277
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80C nia. No need gpgt


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Old 14-02-2018, 06:26 AM   #278
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At first glance

Expected mummy1234?

But hey, no matter how sad this is

You have to look on the bright side

If you can take one more breadth, can put up with it for one more day, do it

Meanwhile, look for options and way out

Remember, it is what it is

When planning way out, donít compare as long as you are clear getting out is already way better

A hubby who gambles, obsessed with amulets, superstitious, puts family last on list, doesn't contribute to the family financially.

I'm really tired
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Old 14-02-2018, 06:30 AM   #279
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At first glance

Expected mummy1234?

But hey, no matter how sad this is

You have to look on the bright side

If you can take one more breadth, can put up with it for one more day, do it

Meanwhile, look for options and way out

Remember, it is what it is

When planning way out, don’t compare as long as you are clear getting out is already way better
Ya i tot is the duapao mummy also

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Old 14-02-2018, 07:07 AM   #280
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A hubby who gambles, obsessed with amulets, superstitious, puts family last on list, doesn't contribute to the family financially.

I'm really tired
U chose him what
U should have known he is siao over amulets

Sometimes i cannot understand women who marry those beta males, ah bengs, low income folks, then complain about them after marriage
If u see the guy has zero potential and earns less than 3.5k (1.5 x 2 incase wife gets pregnant) 500 rainy day fund they should have broken up with him liao

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Old 14-02-2018, 07:22 AM   #281
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1. Go for marital counselling. Arrange to go alone first and after a few sessions, get your husband to go.

2. Your husband, I suspect, is not the auto type especially when it comes to the children. He cannot think what needs to be done. You have to give him a list of things to do and the approximate time needed. Eg:
a) Test spelling for children (10 mins each)
b) check that they finish their hw. Look inside pupils' diary and tick hw they finished.(15 mins)

3. you say he's earning a big salary. How come he's not contributing? If you are the one settling everything, then you have to tell him you need more help from him. Ask him to make standing instruction for the bank to transfer a fixed amount to your account every month

4. get a powerful amulet that will win all his amulets
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Old 14-02-2018, 07:25 AM   #282
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A hubby who gambles, obsessed with amulets, superstitious, puts family last on list, doesn't contribute to the family financially.

I'm really tired
Your hubby is it siaukao 369?
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Old 14-02-2018, 07:32 AM   #283
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Skarli is buigina buay song ah keong, come in troll and cocktease you all bbfa.
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Old 14-02-2018, 07:41 AM   #284
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Old 14-02-2018, 07:44 AM   #285
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How are you ts
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