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Old 13-02-2018, 09:27 PM   #1
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My mind is in a blank now after sending this email to reject a girl

My mind is in a blank now after sending this email to reject a girl

Dear _______

I wish that you will be able to find a partner who wants to have kids after marriage

We can only continue to be friends because



1. For me, I think its not possible to have a gf who only wants to have sex after marriage. Most guys will not want such a situation too because

A relationship without sex is very weird. Most guys will think it is more of a friendship than a relationship and that the girl is not serious in a relationship

You will probably find it hard to find a bf if you want such a relationship


2. My purpose of getting marry is to have a companionship and to have my own hdb to stay as I do not like to stay with my mother. Your purpose of getting marry is to have kids


3. I do not want to have kids because I only earn 2k plus a month. I do not want to have to use my 2k salary to support myself, my kid and a housing loan for the next 20 to 30 years.

I know its possible to do so and many people have done it too. But I do not want to lead a poor life for the next 20 to 30 years without much savings every month and constantly worry what happens if I get retrenched in my job and unable to find a new job for a long time than I have no money to support my kid and monthly housing loan

I am happy with my job and its unlikely I will want to try to find a higher salary job just so that I can have more money to support my kid.

I am not a gambler and I don't want to gamble and hope that when my kid grow up, he/she will be successful in life and than he/she will be able to give me a good life in my old age.

Although I wish to get marry to have my own hdb, but I don't want to take option number 3 with my wife that is to marry and have kids.

I only want to get marry without kids. I do not want to get marry with kids
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:28 PM   #2
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Lol bbfa spotted

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Old 13-02-2018, 09:31 PM   #3
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I felt relieved for the girl.

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Old 13-02-2018, 09:32 PM   #4
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Your gf is left or right hand? Is your gf the same hand as the one u use to write this letter?
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:35 PM   #5
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it will be really nice if she replied with this image

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Old 13-02-2018, 09:35 PM   #6
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A relationship without sex is very weird. Most guys will think it is more of a friendship than a relationship and that the girl is not serious in a relationship

You will probably find it hard to find a bf if you want such a relationship

I only want to get marry without kids. I do not want to get marry with kids
Excellent points.

A man after my own heart.
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:35 PM   #7
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:35 PM   #8
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How old are u and wads yr pay?
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:36 PM   #9
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Send email... yea sounds just about... sht
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:39 PM   #10
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My mind is in a blank now after sending this email to reject a girl

Dear right hand

I wish that you will be able to find a partner who wants to have kids after marriage

We can only continue to be friends because



1. For me, I think its not possible to have a gf who only wants to have sex after marriage. Most guys will not want such a situation too because

A relationship without sex is very weird. Most guys will think it is more of a friendship than a relationship and that the girl is not serious in a relationship

You will probably find it hard to find a bf if you want such a relationship


2. My purpose of getting marry is to have a companionship and to have my own hdb to stay as I do not like to stay with my mother. Your purpose of getting marry is to have kids


3. I do not want to have kids because I only earn 2k plus a month. I do not want to have to use my 2k salary to support myself, my kid and a housing loan for the next 20 to 30 years.

I know its possible to do so and many people have done it too. But I do not want to lead a poor life for the next 20 to 30 years without much savings every month and constantly worry what happens if I get retrenched in my job and unable to find a new job for a long time than I have no money to support my kid and monthly housing loan

I am happy with my job and its unlikely I will want to try to find a higher salary job just so that I can have more money to support my kid.

I am not a gambler and I don't want to gamble and hope that when my kid grow up, he/she will be successful in life and than he/she will be able to give me a good life in my old age.

Although I wish to get marry to have my own hdb, but I don't want to take option number 3 with my wife that is to marry and have kids.

I only want to get marry without kids. I do not want to get marry with kids
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Old 13-02-2018, 09:52 PM   #11
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TS yr angmo better mine, don't bluff earn $2k???

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Old 13-02-2018, 10:00 PM   #12
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TS yr angmo better mine, don't bluff earn $2k???

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Angmo good got what use?

My office auntie cleaner can speak english, chinese, hokkien, Cantonese, teochew and malay language.

But she only earn 1.2k a month
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Old 13-02-2018, 10:02 PM   #13
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that is the weirdest email i ever seen.
just say u and her do not have matching interests la.
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Old 13-02-2018, 10:06 PM   #14
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content of the letter ish reasonable
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Old 13-02-2018, 10:06 PM   #15
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This TS is puborkia - just ignore and pban him, a menace to society
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