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Old 30-12-2017, 07:36 PM   #1
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Unhappy any parents here? your parents got refuse to take care of your baby/child?

while my wife was pregnant, my parents who were wishing for a grandchild all the while said they were willing to take care of the baby. I said ok, thinking that grandparents look after baby is better than a maid.

fast forward, baby is now nearly 3 months old. baby has been taken care of by confinement lady in first month. and second month by my wife, while my parents came at times in the day to play with him.

then this week, my wife and I took 2 days break to go for a short trip nearby. When I was back, my parents say they cannot look after him. He said he cries every few hours for milk and the crying at night was especially difficult. I mean that's what babies do. Anyone can play with the baby, but to change his diapers, rock him to sleep, and feed him is different issue.

so end up now, they told me to go hire a maid when my wife go back work, and they will just pop by at times to check how it goes.

I have mixed feelings about this. if I knew at the start that they are not going to take care of him, I would have hired a maid, but now I am scrambling to find one before my wife go back to work. also, my parents are not doing anything, not working, just staying at home watch tv, or go market or go out. they are free to live their lives that way, but somehow I just feel abit disappointed and abit jealous that some friends of mine have their parents looking after their children for them.

anyone here also like that?
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:38 PM   #2
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Maybe your baby not kewt enuf for them


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Old 30-12-2017, 07:41 PM   #3
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Ta u SIAO huh. Yr parents not obligated to help you ok. It yr own children.
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:41 PM   #4
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Would you want to be woken up by loud crying, change diapers and prepare baby formula at 2 a.m. at their age?
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:43 PM   #5
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U got give them money not
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:44 PM   #6
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Go short trip throw baby to parents. Go jiak sai
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:44 PM   #7
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Own self gian song shoot inside. Now blame parents.
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:45 PM   #8
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No easy to take care a baby. I dunno how old are your parents
Old ppl will get tired taking bb whole day + nite feeding.
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:45 PM   #9
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My story is both sides fighting to take care of my son...

My wife always let her mum aka 外婆 take care whereas my mum aka 阿嬤 only see her grandson once every month and she is very sad...

My wife hate my mum, every thing my mum said or do, she buay song but everything her mum do is ok...

Really is FML...
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:48 PM   #10
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Ta u SIAO huh. Yr parents not obligated to help you ok. It yr own children.
after this episode, i realise cannot trust anyone... even my parents, who say they want to, but in the end don't want.
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:48 PM   #11
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U got give them money not
yes... monthly allowance....
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yes... monthly allowance....
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:52 PM   #13
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My story is both sides fighting to take care of my son...

My wife always let her mum aka 外婆 take care whereas my mum aka 阿嬤 only see her grandson once every month and she is very sad...

My wife hate my mum, every thing my mum said or do, she buay song but everything her mum do is ok...

Really is FML...
yes i wonder how many here really got children.

stuck between wife and mother is sibei sian one.
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Old 30-12-2017, 07:53 PM   #14
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can dont be so selfish or not

ask your wife quit her job and look after your child until primary school lah. its nobbody's business to raise your kid except you and your wife. not your parents, not a maid.

once hit P1 liao, im sure you can nego with your parents, after school go their place for 3-4hrs then u pick your kid up before going home.

same time your wife can actually go back work full time.

selfish fug, want shoot insai now dunwan look after your kid properly then throw to maid look after. best yet, your kid only 3 mths old and u 2 can go holiday and throw ur kid to parents like that. jin satki ~

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Old 30-12-2017, 07:54 PM   #15
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u swey swey kenna this type of maid then ho sey

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/singapore-maid-from-hell/
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