Why didn't u both moved out was divorce the last resortEven sweeping and mopping she got 1001 reason to fault me.. until the daughter have to ask her go out.. but soon ex mil know the daughter trying to help moi.. then refused to go out..
Haiz.. it was a 6 mths torture..
The Women's Charter is very harsh on men even in this day and age when women really are not as helpless as those two to three generations ago.Money face, even wants my wife to divorce me to split assets.. knn
Never live with in laws to save $, this type of $ cannot save...
I lived with my ML for 18 years. Not easy due to vast differences in living habits. She is also quite a miser. She can leave the toilet bowl choked with faeces while we were on three weeks vacation and waited for us to return to call in the plumber. All because she didn't want to fork out a single cent for the repair. My hubby gave her quite a generous allowance every month.
When she came back from holidays, she bought gifts for my hubby only. I did all the household chores. She insisted on cooking although we didn't want her to as she always left the stove unattended. My hubby suffered many sleepless nights due to leaking gas from the stove.
She is now in her 80s and in the last leg of her life. She is in a nursing home now as we could not take care of her due to her multiple medical conditions.
Despite the tumultuous relationship in the past, I will still do my part to care for her in whatever ways that I could. Before she was admitted to the nursing home, I took care of all her medical appointments and accompanied her for her TCM treatments when my hubby couldn't take leave from work.
I don't have very much affection for her but I will still do my part to care for her. The reason is simple, I love my hubby and this transcends any feelings I have for his mum.
I lived with my ML for 18 years. Not easy due to vast differences in living habits. She is also quite a miser. She can leave the toilet bowl choked with faeces while we were on three weeks vacation and waited for us to return to call in the plumber. All because she didn't want to fork out a single cent for the repair. My hubby gave her quite a generous allowance every month.
When she came back from holidays, she bought gifts for my hubby only. I did all the household chores. She insisted on cooking although we didn't want her to as she always left the stove unattended. My hubby suffered many sleepless nights due to leaking gas from the stove.
She is now in her 80s and in the last leg of her life. She is in a nursing home now as we could not take care of her due to her multiple medical conditions.
Despite the tumultuous relationship in the past, I will still do my part to care for her in whatever ways that I could. Before she was admitted to the nursing home, I took care of all her medical appointments and accompanied her for her TCM treatments when my hubby couldn't take leave from work.
I don't have very much affection for her but I will still do my part to care for her. The reason is simple, I love my hubby and this transcends any feelings I have for his mum.
Be it man or women, just dont stay with parents. Married means ready to shoulder responsibility of having a home and being independent.
If not, dun get married lah