BUSYNESS- friendship killer?

[kewl2003]

is this the process of life?

last time 2ndary and tertiary used to have a lot of friends....

then since started work, less time to meet

colleagues/ married colleagues dun socialise much after work,

other friends attached, or married dun have time to meet

basically from a BIG list of friends now become smaller list leh

do you guys still make the effort to keep in touch with ur friends?

nowadays I dun dare to anyhow make friends, might not be lasting friendships too

how how how

[spiraleye]

everyone goes thru the same process...

[koizumi888]

yesh it ish

[Rellit]

thats life, as we grow older, more busy = less time for friend. even more so if you have family or in a relationship.

[Gabriel_23]

through this processes and filtration , you'll realize who are the real true friends

[panda_san]

if got the heart,got time or not the friendship still last 1

[crapie]

Why don't you factor in marrige too.

[kewl2003]

Originally Posted by spiraleye

everyone goes thru the same process...

but but but then what's the point of making so many friends, at the end of the day little remain....last time so excited to make friends....then....

it's just sharing stories/experiences with friends, that's all

I wanna buy more story books see whether good replacement for friends anot...

[arcturuz]

part n parcel of life

[spiraleye]

Originally Posted by kewl2003

but but but then what's the point of making so many friends, at the end of the day little remain....last time so excited to make friends....then....

it's just sharing stories/experiences with friends, that's all

I wanna buy more story books see whether good replacement for friends anot...

lol. then u would rather make enemies or be anti-social? they may not be yr "true" friends or last till you breathe yr last... but in some ways, they did past by in yr life and hopefully leave you with some memorable experiences or taught u a thing or two..

[arcturuz]

Originally Posted by Gabriel_23

through this processes and filtration , you'll realize who are the real true friends

i agree, alot of friends change as they progress in life some show true colors n stuff rike that.

[kewl2003]

Originally Posted by spiraleye

lol. then u would rather make enemies or be anti-social? they may not be yr "true" friends or last till you breathe yr last... but in some ways, they did past by in yr life and hopefully leave you with some memorable experiences or taught u a thing or two..

no lah...but sometimes I see the students on mrt or bus in groups remind me last time I used to have lotsa friends

yes memorable experiences...but not lasting....

people are always sho busy....life....

[spiraleye]

Originally Posted by kewl2003

no lah...but sometimes I see the students on mrt or bus in groups remind me last time I used to have lotsa friends

yes memorable experiences...but not lasting....

people are always sho busy....life....

only thing lasting are the memorables experiences...

[Rellit]

Originally Posted by kewl2003

but but but then what's the point of making so many friends, at the end of the day little remain....last time so excited to make friends....then....

it's just sharing stories/experiences with friends, that's all

I wanna buy more story books see whether good replacement for friends anot...

most friends will come and go at different stages of our life, however there may be some whom you are able to keep for the rest of your life. Having a best friend is really like having another person who will always be there for you, and knows you well enough just like your other half.

[r0t1prata]

that's why you marry, forever stuck with that woman. don't need frens.