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Old 22-03-2019, 01:49 AM   #8281
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Mak . Some time earlier :
I said to lady

"Also prepare to lose your job if your office does not condone problems like this."

They are vicious.
Hopefully it wont happen but if it happens, its not the end of the world. Take it as an oppurtunity to start over.

Yes they are vicious hence we should not show any fear to them. Its just sad that she didnt even ask for a loan, she just wanted a new phone installment. 💔😔
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Old 22-03-2019, 03:54 AM   #8282
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Sigh. That's a saying. When 10 good things happened to you, no one remember. When 1 bad thing happened, everyone remember. Some will stay with u, some will drift and even condemn u. The latter stands higher percentage. I been thru it and it proven. That's why now I don't give a **** to my surroundings. Only keep those who are genuine. My attention is my family only.
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Old 22-03-2019, 06:13 AM   #8283
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Nice to hear you and all here who contribute their experience.

Aiya they can say I screwed their wives in my dream and would still make their demands.
Lost for words to describe them .

I have no more problem after a month or so because they moved on to other soft target.




The sad thing is that she’s not even thinking of getting a loan from ML instead she’s trying to get a phone.
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Old 22-03-2019, 06:29 AM   #8284
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Nice to hear you and all here who contribute their experience.

Aiya they can say I screwed their wives in my dream and would still make their demands.
Lost for words to describe them .

I have no more problem after a month or so because they moved on to other soft target.
Just giving a little whenever I can cos I know how it feels when gotten into the situation.

Mine is almost 3 months since they last tried to contact me.
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Old 22-03-2019, 08:36 AM   #8285
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Thats why I called you superman ma .
You can tahan all their nonsense.

Up up and away.

That
Either tahan their nonsense or tahan kena millk by them...choose one..my neighbours are supportive..that y I not scare of them send letters to my neighbor
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Old 22-03-2019, 08:37 AM   #8286
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To all victims,

7 years ago..i had more than 30 to 40 uml & lml..had max out my credit card with more $120k.my debts is close to half a million.
I had lost all my friends, my fiancee left me and i even try to end my life. Im lucky that the bottle of bleach i drank dint kill me.

There are solutions to all problems.Be optimistic and positive. I had been through all.Im still struggling but at least im turning around.

I will try to share how i turn my life around shortly.
Guess is due to gambling addiction..
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Old 22-03-2019, 10:44 AM   #8287
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From my saga, money affects to all irregularless of friends or family. U will see a lot. In end, ownself have to be strong to face n move on to grow to be better. What don kill u, make u stronger.

You still don't get what I mean mah?
Read carefully,the people who try to borrow money from LS or UML or lml that mean they can't seek help from anybody already. Who want to pay so high interest? Who want to busy with LS? But because they can't find anybody help already so simple.

My cases too, I lost everything, lost job, lost family, lost friend. And now just start new life with new friends new boss new environment.

I feel very sad sometimes when I read addvice that said ask we all to come clean with family, because after come clean the problem get worse than keep in the dark, that why some of us try to solve the problems by ourselves before tell family.

Not all of us lucky to have supported from family, lost everything like me is exsample.
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Old 22-03-2019, 10:48 AM   #8288
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U r a strong example of strong will.
Myself, i still have business debt.

跌落谷底必定会反弹。

💪👍👏👏👏

To all victims,

7 years ago..i had more than 30 to 40 uml & lml..had max out my credit card with more $120k.my debts is close to half a million.
I had lost all my friends, my fiancee left me and i even try to end my life. Im lucky that the bottle of bleach i drank dint kill me.

There are solutions to all problems.Be optimistic and positive. I had been through all.Im still struggling but at least im turning around.

I will try to share how i turn my life around shortly.
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Old 22-03-2019, 10:54 AM   #8289
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No problem. Most welcome.
We shared our experience/encounter to over come this.

When at first i encounter them, i also seek comfort & advise reading this forum.

Now my side quiet. Believe mostly overseas LS. I do have 3x local LS n also light chaser.
Cross finger but i also ready for them.

Thank you for the advise. I did not pay them anything at all cos never take any loan from them and they can't transfer also as no account information given.
I've delink my PayNow and paylah as well.
So far quiet as I've blocked their number.
No disturbance to workplace or NOK.
Hopefully it stays that way but thank you for the tips and advise 🙏
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Old 22-03-2019, 10:56 AM   #8290
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Now i stop all & report them. Manage to gain some peace. My NOK also quiet now.

That's good. I will be reporting the number to WhatsApp within these few days time. Not sure will they ban it permanently but hopefully. So they will loss every conversations that they have. Their only communication platform is WhatsApp.
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Old 22-03-2019, 11:22 AM   #8291
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You are partially right..but majority is biz failure and family medical bills
Guess is due to gambling addiction..
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Old 22-03-2019, 01:12 PM   #8292
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The sad thing is that she’s not even thinking of getting a loan from ML instead she’s trying to get a phone.
yes that is the sad part of it
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Old 22-03-2019, 01:14 PM   #8293
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Hopefully it wont happen but if it happens, its not the end of the world. Take it as an oppurtunity to start over.

Yes they are vicious hence we should not show any fear to them. Its just sad that she didnt even ask for a loan, she just wanted a new phone installment. 💔😔
Makminah & Fearless. i really do hope it doesnt happen but nevertheless, i am trying to prepare myself.
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Old 22-03-2019, 01:22 PM   #8294
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Hang on sis. Report all this harassment to I/O. I guess your office building have security guard and CCTV.

I hope your boss is helpful and feels your are victimized rather than causing him and the Co a fuss.

Continue to stay strong. Remember, if the UMLs sense fear in you, they will eat you for breakfast. Continue to show them you are not afraid of them, even if you are wreck at the moment. We understand how you feel.
Thank you green72, yes my company has cctv all over and even one in my own office. i dont think that they will take the risk of coming in the office. i am trying to be firm and strong. sometimes there are sad days with lots of tears but i am glad that my company somehow understands. i just hope this will stop soon.

i received a call from my IO this morning. he advised me about what i should do and that was a bit reassuring. he also said that my case has been handed over to the Criminal Investigation Department - Singapore Police Force.

i am waiting for the the town council's approval so we can proceed with the cctv. same advise from the officer:

1. do not reply. block them.
2. do not pay
3. disregard any messages and inform NOK and Company to disregard them
4. if they speak to someone in the company advise them that you no longer work there.

He said that they will never go to the workplace. he also said that chances of them going to the residence is also low. to feel more secured , install cctv.

call him for any updates about the incident. They are not here in Singapore and operate based on whatsapp etc. inform friends and colleagues about those malicious posts and numbers that are involved.

stay strong and call 999 for emergencies.
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Old 22-03-2019, 02:54 PM   #8295
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You are partially right..but majority is biz failure and family medical bills
Then how u deal with it..I 15 ls already quite headache Liao..u 30ls..
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