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Old 14-01-2020, 07:50 AM   #1
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anyone take care of dementia parent? are u worried?

if you are single child and bbfa

are u worry that ur parent dementia will get serious?

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Old 14-01-2020, 07:51 AM   #2
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How is your daily coping like?

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Old 14-01-2020, 07:55 AM   #3
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generally if you are able to cope financially, I will suggest getting a caretaker to look during your working hours... a lot of time may be required to spend with them depending on the seriousness of the illness.. a close one of mine fell ill to it and I can tell you its really heartbreaking when they don't recognise you anymore....
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Old 14-01-2020, 07:57 AM   #4
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yesss it is very heartbreaking illness

especially if the parent is guai lan one

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Old 14-01-2020, 07:58 AM   #5
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It will get more and more serious.. better spend more quality time with them while u can or u will regret it..
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Should start worrying about myself because it might be hereditary.
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yesss it is very heartbreaking illness

especially if the parent is guai lan one

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if you know its due to the illness then be forgiving... more than often its not something that they wanted, I believe its also frustrating being unable to recall things...
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Old 14-01-2020, 08:03 AM   #8
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It will get more and more serious.. better spend more quality time with them while u can or u will regret it..
if single child, is it feasible to send them to old folk home for easy management? or nursing home?

What is the criteria to send old folk to elderly home? is it must be serious?

I dun like people to judge me when I send my parent to elderly home, will I label as not filial?
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Old 14-01-2020, 08:07 AM   #9
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It is a long hard road - physically, emotionally and financially. You got to be strong...


if you are single child and bbfa

are u worry that ur parent dementia will get serious?

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if single child, is it feasible to send them to old folk home for easy management? or nursing home?

What is the criteria to send old folk to elderly home? is it must be serious?

I dun like people to judge me when I send my parent to elderly home, will I label as not filial?
no, elderly home not an issue... on the contrary some may charge higher as extra care is required...
pertaining to your next question... is not about what others label you as but rather can you find it in yourself to do so?
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Old 14-01-2020, 08:10 AM   #11
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no, elderly home not an issue... on the contrary some may charge higher as extra care is required...
pertaining to your next question... is not about what others label you as but rather can you find it in yourself to do so?
U gt send ur parent to old folk home?

I think old folk home is easier to manage, how much u spend per month?
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It is a long hard road - physically, emotionally and financially. You got to be strong...
I am single child

basically I am screwed
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Old 14-01-2020, 08:14 AM   #14
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I am single child

basically I am screwed
How much are you earning?

Send them to old folks home

The lower your salary, the more subsidy u get
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