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Old 13-10-2018, 12:41 AM   #16
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okay what, her method will not have strawberry kids like you.
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Old 13-10-2018, 12:45 AM   #17
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Tell her you can donate your sperm by direct injection. No need to pay for ivf
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Old 13-10-2018, 12:46 AM   #18
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Old 13-10-2018, 02:45 AM   #19
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What's wrong with her response? Some people just love kids. And don't mind if their kids don't get premium tuition or grades.
Yes got something wrong.

If you give birth to kids because you love or want kids, something is wrong.

Firstly, you have no idea if you really love kids until you have kids. No amount of playing with kids or being a stand in nanny for kids can prepare you for the reality of being a parent.

Secondly, what happens to the kids when your love for kids diminishes or fades? No, you don't go into this because you want kids and want a big family. You go into this because you want to care for and nurture another human being.

It's always a red flag for me when someone "knows they want kids". That, to me, signals everything wrong with their mindset. It's almost as if they "want a pet".

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Old 13-10-2018, 02:47 AM   #20
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Actually if there's chance, I love to have more kids too ... too bad I have no girlfriend yet ...
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Old 13-10-2018, 03:04 AM   #21
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I like her style where independence starts from young and not depending on parents for monetary. Loving kids around!
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Old 13-10-2018, 03:08 AM   #22
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saw a rop couple with 4 kids today
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Old 13-10-2018, 03:15 AM   #23
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Old 13-10-2018, 03:16 AM   #24
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She: i want to have 4 kids after marry

Me: erm u work as nurse very rich ah, want to support 4 kids

She: i will just give them the basics in life. No tution etc. Once they reach 18 years old, they have to work part time to support themself. I can use my cpf to pay for their university education than after when they graduate they need to pay back the money plus interest to my cpf account. But they have to support themself for their daily expenses.


The guy sit beside me shake his head when he hear this

After the event,

Me: why you shaking your head just now

He: because i pity whoever is her kids. Jin poor thing. I hope when her kids grow up they will not bother about her and ask her to support herself

that depends on your values

she is more westernised, thinking is not so asian

just because she has different beliefs doesn't mean she is wrong and you have a right to object.
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Old 13-10-2018, 03:35 AM   #25
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Yes got something wrong.

If you give birth to kids because you love or want kids, something is wrong.

Firstly, you have no idea if you really love kids until you have kids. No amount of playing with kids or being a stand in nanny for kids can prepare you for the reality of being a parent.

Secondly, what happens to the kids when your love for kids diminishes or fades? No, you don't go into this because you want kids and want a big family. You go into this because you want to care for and nurture another human being.

It's always a red flag for me when someone "knows they want kids". That, to me, signals everything wrong with their mindset. It's almost as if they "want a pet".

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Dun really agree with your first point. It's very very low chance someone who loves kids and wanted kids to dun love their kids after they have one. 9f course loving kids cannot be the only reason to want a big family, need to consider the finances too.

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Old 13-10-2018, 04:24 AM   #26
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girl no matter how cui also will get married one day

but not so for edmw BBFA
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Old 13-10-2018, 04:32 AM   #27
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sometimes don't marry better.
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Old 13-10-2018, 04:38 AM   #28
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Shaking my head here also why ts need go dating event
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Old 13-10-2018, 04:48 AM   #29
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Old 13-10-2018, 04:49 AM   #30
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Either the nurse works in maternity ward or elderly care LOL.
To sum up, No guys will want to hear a woman says want kids during speed dating. Itís like telling her I want to pump you full tank.
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