is he some high ranked officer?
Anyway i admire girls that sign on! Not easy role even for man ;\
Not only high ranked lol. He is like the AD for recruitment. He is a nice guy for sure but for girls who are expecting to receive some gender difference treatment like since I am a girl, I can smoke my way through.
It is not gonna happen and you need to be sure what you are signing up for. For my situation, I was quite persistent and he was continuing trying to convince me like with the what-if qns. but I didn't give in to him cause I was quite certain of my views so I don't know what is the results for me. but he was such person. FYI, mine was just a tea session.
For panel interview, there is even higher ranking officer or similar position officer like him who is going to attack you like a gun machine and see your reaction. so yeah. you need to be sure of it and not end up backing out just because you are scared.
Girls who decided to sign on has their reasons I believe. Be it male or female, you need to be sure of what you want and wish to achieve.