I wouldn't go for those kind. Communication mismatch, I will put in the effort to communicate, but if they don't, then not much I can do.Usually gers will not showhand so easily lah, need to read between the lines with chiur smart scope
young like ideals, so prefer to hear sweet talk. Have to adjust communication patterns accordingly. But if it's too far out of ur comfort zone for communicating with them, then it's better to go for someone else.yeah, same. i hate politics... im not a fan of people who like say good things to you but dont tell you what needs to be said. my social circle mostly click with mature people aunties and uncles liao.
but i realised my style doesnt make me a lot of friends leh. younger people mostly cant handle the hard truths kind.
my aunties friends all urging me to marry... said scared i old will be lonely.Quite hard to find someone ur age like that wor.
At one point of my life.. most people I mix with are at least 20 years older than me.
Moi feel Pakho is handsome guy leh, not suprise if a gerl is willing to pay for him for all dates.https://www.todayonline.com/8days/s...ent/pakho-chaus-wife-used-pay-all-their-dates
Where can bbfas find a ger who will pay for all of their dates?
i used to pay for some of my last dates' subsequent dates and he was mega impressed.https://www.todayonline.com/8days/s...ent/pakho-chaus-wife-used-pay-all-their-dates
Where can bbfas find a ger who will pay for all of their dates?
huh... my sis never mentioned to me but my mom cautioned me saying time is not on my side. which is v true. i believe people get old. habits get set. harder to live with. compared to a couple that went through mid 20s to 30s, 40s together, easier to accommodate habits and living style.I got two younger sisters who are both older than u but still single.. my parents and I didn't even mention about getting married once.. None of my relatives had ever broached the topic too.
It is ur life, u can live with the consequences of ur own decision. good or bad. Dating is to pass time and hopefully u can meet the right person. That said, can't read much from one meeting.
Well.. it is not that the older folks' thinking is different.. their stage of life and life experiences have shaped them. The type of opportunities they had or were given to them were very different too.
i used to pay for some of my last dates' subsequent dates and he was mega impressed.
some of them treat as like an insult, i havent even open my bag already whip out card to pay...
one ex-date now fwen waited till i went toilet then paid secretly. then after i came back i wanted to pay in his absence then waitress arm chio told me fwen already paid...
Moi feel Pakho is handsome guy leh, not suprise if a gerl is willing to pay for him for all dates.
Comparing moi look from him, if he got 8/10, moi got 6 nia...
aiyah last time HA can tarpau in my bag and blanjah...tmr no excuse liaoChiu can go out wif moi and treat moi to a few pints of beer, moi will not fight with chiu to pay the bill
I wouldn't go for those kind. Communication mismatch, I will put in the effort to communicate, but if they don't, then not much I can do.
young like ideals, so prefer to hear sweet talk. Have to adjust communication patterns accordingly. But if it's too far out of ur comfort zone for communicating with them, then it's better to go for someone else.
Hard truths help ppl to grow over time, might not be the nicest thing to hear. But good for learning
Sadly no. Moi pay all the meals/drinks with all the gerls I have met up. Gotch another date coming soon.I think the question is whether or not u have a girl willing to pay for ur dates with her?
ummm but my example is about couples living together not friends discussing life stages.Given my age.. I have reasons to believe that my parents are likely older la.
I have explained to Yukirin chan before..
For example, U are in ur early thirties and u have a female friend in her late fourties. Both of u married 11 years earlier and have a 10 year old kid.
When both of u discuss about ur family and children, the stage of life is the same despite the age difference.
Ultimately.. it depends on your actual life spans. For example, u have not even spent 5 years with a ex bf before.. How to talk about spending the next 50 years together?
Getting married is at best an educated guess. Things might change along the way as u advance in life or career.
aiyah last time HA can tarpau in my bag and blanjah...tmr no excuse liao
haha....i will put a cooler bag in my car. beer needs to be cold to be nice!Wah chiur auntie pack can fit snacks and drinks, sure to be a hit with bbfas
One thing I realised is that, sometimes girls might be going through a tough phase in life and communicate less. But usually, you have to judge based on whether they are willing to communicate more after that phase. In that situation, if they are apologetic, that is alright. But if they really go silent and want you to guess/predict, then it's not good. I can infer, but sometimes inference isn't 100% correct, it's better to get a confirmation.Will still need to deploy the smartscope to determine when the ger has buanged to avoid overcommitting
haha....i will put a cooler bag in my car. beer needs to be cold to be nice!
snacks...reminds me last time i sa sa de bake muffins for my crush cum date. lol.
One thing I realised is that, sometimes girls might be going through a tough phase in life and communicate less. But usually, you have to judge based on whether they are willing to communicate more after that phase. In that situation, if they are apologetic, that is alright. But if they really go silent and want you to guess/predict, then it's not good. I can infer, but sometimes inference isn't 100% correct, it's better to get a confirmation.
If that person can't give a confirmation, what happens in the future when there are conflicts? The person would probably be the avoidant type and be passive-aggressive, etc.
hmmm i guess once you become a parent, your priorities shift.Its the same la. When u have been together with someone for some years.. not possible to find new activities to do every week de la.
Consequently, the minute u have a child, going forward all ur memories will be about the kid for the rest of ur life la. Cos no matter what u do, as the child grows up, need to think how to settle the kid first until he is independent enough for u not to bother.
Just have to look closely at what ur parents are doing now. Day in day out, doing same stuff, right?
i was the cook and baker in home econs. my partner helped me wash and bring home the leftovers...U must have liked the guy a lot, man!
I used to get some free cookies and stuff from girls after home econs class in secondary school. No one else to help them taste.