use for other occasions (including your requirements): linen, solid navy colour, notch lapel, 2 button
Add a vest to make you stand out as few people wear a vest. If ok, you can communicate that to your tailor.
Unless you attend many events like award ceremonies or Dinner and Dance, you are a celebrity, emcee or boss of your own company, peak lapel and double-breasted will see few uses because it is easy to steal the limelight from bosses, main event characters like the groom, etc
but it's your wedding, your call! ultimately it's the memories that matter.