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My first post in this thread.....
I was really sad since yesterday and I couldn't sleep now.
 

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I suddenly think of my ex out of no where.... we had a 7 yrs relationship and 3 yrs had past since we last broken up.
I have been single then and she is already married.

I swear that I have moved on but suddenly think of her / miss her.
U have been single since u broke up with her is it?
 

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U have been single since u broke up with her is it?
Yes... I don't want to commit another relationship.

For these 3 yrs.. I never cried or even upset knowing that she is married recently.

And yesterday, I finally let my emotional all out and cried in my shower room. TBH, I felt relieved.
 

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Yes... I don't want to commit another relationship.

For these 3 yrs.. I never cried or even upset knowing that she is married recently.

And yesterday, I finally let my emotional all out and cried in my shower room. TBH, I felt relieved.
Wow all that grief u have been holding back these 3 yrs...

Ya... after u cry... u will really feel better a bit...
 

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Yes... I don't want to commit another relationship.

For these 3 yrs.. I never cried or even upset knowing that she is married recently.

And yesterday, I finally let my emotional all out and cried in my shower room. TBH, I felt relieved.
U sad u din want to commit to another r/s after u broke up with her... is it because u couldn't get over her or u just din want to risk going into another r/s only to suffer heartbreak again?
 

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Wow all that grief u have been holding back these 3 yrs...

Ya... after u cry... u will really feel better a bit...
Yes... felt better after that.
Even though I have moved on as mentioned in earlier post.... but, my mother would keep constantly nagging me for letting such a nice / beautiful girl go just like that, especially for a 7 yrs relationship. Both my parents love my Ex very much and ready to accept her as daughter in law anytime.
 

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Yes... felt better after that.
Even though I have moved on as mentioned in earlier post.... but, my mother would keep constantly nagging me for letting such a nice / beautiful girl go just like that, especially for a 7 yrs relationship. Both my parents love my Ex very much and ready to accept her as daughter in law anytime.
Who wanted the breakup... u or her or both of u?
 

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U sad u din want to commit to another r/s after u broke up with her... is it because u couldn't get over her or u just din want to risk going into another r/s only to suffer heartbreak again?
I would say more towards of getting another heartbreak situation and to start to know / get used to a person's character.

But tbh, I am also hoping/ waiting that we might patch back if there are any chance. When she informed that me that she was going to married someone... I was like ok, congrats.. I did not felt anything emotional as I shifted my focus on work commitment instead.

And that was what happened yesterday, I just suddenly felt sad.
 

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I would say more towards of getting another heartbreak situation and to start to know / get used to a person's character.

But tbh, I am also hoping/ waiting that we might patch back if there are any chance. When she informed that me that she was going to married someone... I was like ok, congrats.. I did not felt anything emotional as I shifted my focus on work commitment instead.

And that was what happened yesterday, I just suddenly felt sad.
Do u mean that u din want to start to know the other party so well like u did with her? Was that the reason u broke up with her?
 

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Who wanted the breakup... u or her or both of u?
I did..... I must have hurted her so much and being a jerk for wasting her 7 yrs of youth. We are both in out mid / late 30s BTW.

Strangely, we had a peaceful breakup. She went to do her things and I do my things after.

Deep down, it was my issue, I was not ready to be her husband. Not because of financially or our passionate feeling towards one another has tie down during this 7 yrs...
 
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Do u mean that u din want to start to know the other party so well like u did with her? Was that the reason u broke up with her?
No... not like that.
Like learning / adapting '"new" partner's habits, smell, character or even her circle of friends and family.
 
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