Singles Thread 2023

[Decorum]

True that I had a few heartbreaks and breakup from 2 ex, and she's just one of them

But like I mentioned the other day... as the age grows, the companionship becomes more important and will tend to treasure a relationship even more...
Somemore now I tio 2-timed and dumped, which is a first

eventually with her level of commitment, it will be a pointless 1 sided relationship

the rs will not be enjoyable

best it ended soonest

 

[Vegitto]

You know why.... Cos 人是犯贱的。
Imagine you are the one choosing right now...you will choose a girl who's sleeping around with many guys while dating you as ur gf meh?.... Logically shd be no ba...

Then why the 2nd guy still chose to be with her?
He knows she also slept with me while sleeping with him, and he told me that he found out from her she also let the third guy do it to her before us but stop contacting the third guy already.

 

[saltydog]

Then why the 2nd guy still chose to be with her?
He knows she also slept with me while sleeping with him, and he told me that he found out from her she also let the third guy do it to her before us but stop contacting the third guy already.

huai huan lo. juz noe chiu dodged a bullet can edi

 

[foo9883]

The hard one I paid $750 leh. Lol can see my bite marks on it but still last.

how long has that monster retainer lasted you so far?
any signs of breakage yet?

 

[Vegitto]

eventually with her level of commitment, it will be a pointless 1 sided relationship

the rs will not be enjoyable

best it ended soonest

Not for me, her commitment to him seems like 100% now.
I know its pointless to say this now, but IF she does choose me over him, it'll not be a 1 sided, but a more wholesome r/s

Ah nevermind. Possibilities like this are just wishful thinking

 

[Vegitto]

huai huan lo. juz noe chiu dodged a bullet can edi

Yeah ok. Thank you

 

[evilrion]

You're right. It is better. Still, if she were to choose me, then cut off with the rest of the guys after being with me, I still can forgive this.

Who don't have a past? We also don't expect to find a virgin gf nowadays also.... as long as after together she turned good... I'll be good with her


Foolish yes I know, but I'll always give 3 chances for the people I treasure (not just bgr)

The things I'm going to say next might or might not be pleasant to your eyes/ears, if I do offend you in any way I apologize first.

It seems to me you are still hoping she will come back to you with your wishful thinking, which I can frankly tell you, she is not going to come back. As many of us have already advised you on this matter, when is time to move on just move on harping about it will not help you in any situation.
Yes everyone has a past, let it be good or bad. But the problem you are facing here is she never intended to be with you in the first place, she is just using you while looking for a better one. Don't you see the problem here? She is taking advantage of your feeling you are showering her and giving nothing in return.

For the bold part, well I cannot commend much as this is your characteristic. But at times you do not have to follow it as some don't deserve it.

 

[Decorum]

Not for me, her commitment to him seems like 100% now.
I know its pointless to say this now, but IF she does choose me over him, it'll not be a 1 sided, but a more wholesome r/s

Ah nevermind. Possibilities like this are just wishful thinking

Oic i hope you become stronger though!

make yourself stronger and better so she will regret doing this to you

 

[Ec7171]

if you think you're ugly because of how that girl treated you, wake up your idea

Wahhhhhh!!!!

U so yandao no need scare no dates...!!

 

[evilrion]

I'll try to stop harping on it...
But now staying alone, a bit hard, since I'm always facing empty walls at home

Then is time to build up your social circle.

 

[evilrion]

Then why the 2nd guy still chose to be with her?
He knows she also slept with me while sleeping with him, and he told me that he found out from her she also let the third guy do it to her before us but stop contacting the third guy already.

Imho, that guy was just passing by and having fun. doubt he will be serious about it since he knows she is sleeping around.

 

[saiyan2005]

I'll try to stop harping on it...
But now staying alone, a bit hard, since I'm always facing empty walls at home

Staying alone is good. Easier to ask ppl out. For my case still have family commitments. Wanna go out very hard also

 

[Ec7171]

The 2nd guy that I talked with....

Now I feel that he has been lying to me as well... few days back tell me will ignore and block her but now with her

Like that no need wait liao...

A few click to delete the girl whatsapp.

 

[Ec7171]

I'll try to stop harping on it...
But now staying alone, a bit hard, since I'm always facing empty walls at home

Go exercise!

Run or swim or box whatever...
Spend the time to improve yourself.

 

[Vegitto]

The things I'm going to say next might or might not be pleasant to your eyes/ears, if I do offend you in any way I apologize first.

It seems to me you are still hoping she will come back to you with your wishful thinking, which I can frankly tell you, she is not going to come back. As many of us have already advised you on this matter, when is time to move on just move on harping about it will not help you in any situation.
Yes everyone has a past, let it be good or bad. But the problem you are facing here is she never intended to be with you in the first place, she is just using you while looking for a better one. Don't you see the problem here? She is taking advantage of your feeling you are showering her and giving nothing in return.

For the bold part, well I cannot commend much as this is your characteristic. But at times you do not have to follow it as some don't deserve it.

Yeah ok. Thank you for helping me to analyse more about the whole picture.
Ahhhh. Really feel like shyt

 

[Decorum]

@Vegitto

your niceties should be your strength not weakness

its the disrespect that hurts too not just the cheating

turn your anger into self improvement

 

[Vegitto]

Oic i hope you become stronger though!

make yourself stronger and better so she will regret doing this to you

Heh, I doubt so.

Probably only the way she will regret is when I tio toto....

 

[Vegitto]

Then is time to build up your social circle.

How do you all find like minded new friends?
I don't have much hobbies nowadays nor interest in much stuff to interact with others via them

 

[Acyyyy]

how long has that monster retainer lasted you so far?
any signs of breakage yet?

At least 4-5 years liao

 

[Vegitto]

Imho, that guy was just passing by and having fun. doubt he will be serious about it since he knows she is sleeping around.

Well, people change. She can cut off the other guys after being with him, he also can start to be serious with her after this