I still don't understand why need a bto before giving birth? Can bto at the same time having baby right? Nowadays babies dont sleep with parents?
Or now baby are smarter... Need a room each?
if no BTO, means baby and couple squeezed into 1 HDB room of parents.
tension rises between couple and/or parents ...
result in poor relationship and work performance
result in divorce..
Alternate universe, it could be
elderly parents are happy to take care of the kid and the couple can continue to work and have their freetime.
relationships between them also become harmonous and bonds forged stronger as a result.
So many permutations... and possibilities.
But I think sensibility will tell you to hold off having the kid if you have not successfully balloted for a BTO.
In life , it's good to have options.