Me Coping With Erectile Dysfunction

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You have become more holy.
No longer interested in mundane human distractions.
It is a higher spiritual state.
 

Kapish

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What do you mean by last up to 4 days??

Won't come down? dafug

can continue in DM if inconvenient
no lah .... won't come down means priapism .. need to go to ER and they will drain your didi liao .. this may occur if you take food or medicine with nitrates in them

4 days of very easy erection ... and indirectly improve sex drive also
 

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Have you seen ppl serum levels high range and still ED?

He's taking other meds

Precendence is my boomer friend, take a slew of other meds, also trt.

Pika halfway kkj soft. Trt need skill one.
I think his case is complicated, need the psychiatrist to adjust his med or replace with another brand if the med lower his testosterone.

TRT is not just to solve ED, it has other health benefits.
 

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I just did a full health screening at SATA Commhealth, and the results confirmed that I am suffering from testosterone deficiency. I'm not complaining, I'm ok with it because the good news is that I don't have too many other health hazards, but I am just being true to myself by confessing that I have been experiencing erection problems for the past four years at least. The last time my (ex-)girlfriend touched me intimately was four years ago, back then I was still attracted to her, but I simply couldn't perform in bed. The doctor said it was performance anxiety. Sex has become extremely stressful for me, and I have tried other means to get myself aroused such as watching prawn once in a while, but most of the time I am quite inert.

I just tried to jerk off moments ago, but I just won't get aroused. Sigh, I give up for the time being. My (ex-)girlfriend taught me to 顺其自然 i.e. let nature take its own course, so I let it go and post a little here in EDMW to confess my ineptitude.
Are u heavily into porn?

Try porn abstaining for at least 3 months
 

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I mean are you overweight? Maybe you should focus on fitness and nurse your mental health to fitness first then time to hunt like a predator!!!
Yes I'm overweight. I am 83kg and 176cm tall. Been putting on weight since I became a self-employed engineer working from home.

Hi yes. I’m the nature. Ask gf to call me
If my (ex-)girlfriend was so desirable, why would she stick with me for 14 years? It's because we were both lacklustre individuals in life, that's why we stuck with each other throughout. By now I still regard her as a girlfriend minus the "ex-", because nobody wants her too! We are all old, not everybody looks like Alexis Dang got both charisma and intellect, we are all just ordinary people trying to make ends meet in life.

Eventually, if nature takes my parents and her parents away from us, when we're left with each other, I might still pop the question "Will you marry me?" When you are at menopausal age, anything goes as long as somebody wants you. We have been loyal to each other, it's just that we both have our own problems.

Yesterday I went to Waterloo Street to ask for a divination lot, but Guan Yin Bodhisattva told me straightaway when I toss the "bueh" that I don't need a newer divination lot, I asked Him, do I go home empty handed, He agreed and told me to fall back on what I already have. As a result, I'm still working with what I already have, instead of trying to find a new girlfriend or better job.

Go JG got help?
I went for a professional treatment using chilli oil to massage my genitals, fwoah, it was damn hot and painful! I was jumping up and down and crying out loud and I had to rinse my genitals with cold water for quite some time before the chilli oil pain subsided.
 

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Don't do any purpose want it for what but just as a hanging deadweight?

:rolleyes:
 

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Are u heavily into porn?

Try porn abstaining for at least 3 months
No la, I don't need porn these days.

It's like a sperm donation tool, if I want to ejaculate I would refer to it once in awhile, but it doesn't work these days for me, so I ended up becoming a luoliluosuo uncle here crapping about my ED. I feel embarassed talking about it, but no choice, because porn doesn't work for me. I have little option but to rant a little because it does perplexes me.
 

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I'm 43 years old, she's 39, I wanted to marry her, but my income is too low and she'll still have to earn her own upkeep. So to her, it's an unnecessary burden because not only must she put up with me, in the end she'd also have to take care of my ageing parents too. To her it's better off if she channels her focus on her career while she still has the drive and passion. For me, since we are not likely to have kids, and the urge to have sex is no longer that strong, it felt better that we go separate. We are still good friends who would talk about a li

I was at my tip top condition when I first met my (ex-)girlfriend in the year 2010. Back then we were both horny creatures and we undressed each other quickly in a quiet room after meeting each other at a nightspot, back then we were both more active in life la. But as time passes, she matured a lot and found more meaning developing her business career, while I still had a whole bunch of extended family members who needed me as a caregiver. As the rigours of life took over, we started losing interest, and on my end I started becoming more interested in Buddhist views and practices such as abstinence and continence. On top of that, my medication meant that I was also being sedated most of the time, I wasn't so capable of becoming sexually aroused, and bit by bit I became inert. The rest of the story I've already posted in this thread, basically I became a Erectile Dysfunction patient apart from suffering from mental issues.
Eh bro, tell your psychologist/psychiatrist that you having ED and suspect it is from your medication.

One of the major side-effect of certain medications, especially SSRI antidepressants, is ED. Your doctor will substitute to another medication, or sometimes just different brand and it will help de.

I also have mental issues - anxiety and panic disorder. For me, my medication didn't cause any side-effect...
 

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I also thought I got ed until i go jb heng heng kena 1 fl totally my type kind then can perform leh. Before that tried a few times all go soft

So maybe is the girl not skillful enough la
 

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I just did a full health screening at SATA Commhealth, and the results confirmed that I am suffering from testosterone deficiency. I'm not complaining, I'm ok with it because the good news is that I don't have too many other health hazards, but I am just being true to myself by confessing that I have been experiencing erection problems for the past four years at least. The last time my (ex-)girlfriend touched me intimately was four years ago, back then I was still attracted to her, but I simply couldn't perform in bed. The doctor said it was performance anxiety. Sex has become extremely stressful for me, and I have tried other means to get myself aroused such as watching prawn once in a while, but most of the time I am quite inert.

I just tried to jerk off moments ago, but I just won't get aroused. Sigh, I give up for the time being. My (ex-)girlfriend taught me to 顺其自然 i.e. let nature take its own course, so I let it go and post a little here in EDMW to confess my ineptitude.
I am 60+ boomer. I also had ED dome years ago at late 50s. Then this ED was somehow cured after I consistently taking supplements from BioHealing Naturals. I was taking a combo supplements of three kinds, kidney supplement, diabetes and hypertension. These supplements were not intended for ED, it was just a positive side effect on me, which is a bonus. So no need to take viagra.
 
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