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Mephist0pheLes said:
if u stay on, u need to be prepared to be treated the same for the rest of your life.

she might become better for a month or two if she cares enough to keep the marriage. but personality is almost impossible to change and she will likely revert back.
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Very difficult to change la, u tell her in a angry or angry tone, she not happy, I tell her nicely, she bo chup. What you want me to do? Is toxic lei... Heads you win, tails I lose...
 
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Nowadays, there is something call " no blame" divorce or simplified
MoeLanYong said:
What you mean how to? That's the criteria the court will allow you to proceed to divorce. Show evidence you have lived apart for at least 3 years

Rent outside. Stay with parents. Whatever.

There are only a few paths the court will allow you to end your marriage.
- separate 3 years, with spouse consent
- separate 4 years, without spouse consent
- desertion
- adultery.

You dunno all these??
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This is wrong info. My friend divorced and she and her ex did not live separately "physically" for 3 or 4 years. In fact they live together. She said the lawyer said as long as they are separate "emotionally" for 3 years or more, it can be considered separate. Separately emotionally means no longer can talk like a close married couple, more like strangers/housemates.

irreconcilable reasons can be a reason for divorce.

Also, nowadays got "no-blame divorce" or simplified divorce. 6 months can settle if more mutually agree.

I suggest @iam7377 to go see a lawyer who will provide more advice.
 
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KPO_SAHM said:
Sorry to hear about that....just relax ur mind. Heng no kids....maybe u would wan to find some of ur good friends , date them out for kopi.
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Thanks man,.I just take bus to clear my mind...
Not much friends anyway...
 
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iam7377 said:
I got notice it, but then it was not so bad...
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Sounded like my friend. Hubby dating times super stingy. Everything on dutch. Now married with kid for 10 years. Hubby has a car n earning quite a good pay. Hubby wants my friend to be stay home. Hubby refuses to take care of son , but not giving my friend any money . She falls sick she has to pay for her own medical. She used up all her saving and could not even afford to buy pad. Now working part time in cafe to earn money for her own self. After work still need to fetch son from school . Hubby doesn even allow her to use household CDC voucher. Friend said she would divorce her hubby when child is an adult. Currently she just tolerate such living as she was born in a very poor family which used to stay in rented flat all her whole life. Parents passed away at young age but her bro financially supports her too.
 
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KPO_SAHM said:
Sounded like my friend. Hubby dating times super stingy. Everything on dutch. Now married with kid for 10 years. Hubby has a car n earning quite a good pay. Hubby wants my friend to be stay home. Hubby refuses to take care of son , but not giving my friend any money . She falls sick she has to pay for her own medical. She used up all her saving and could not even afford to buy pad. Now working part time in cafe to earn money for her own self. After work still need to fetch son from school . Hubby doesn even allow her to use household CDC voucher. Friend said she would divorce her hubby when child is an adult. Currently she just tolerate such living as she was born in a very poor family which used to stay in rented flat all her whole life. Parents passed away at young age but her bro financially supports her too.
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sld jus divorce and get as much as possible from the husband.
 
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KPO_SAHM said:
Sounded like my friend. Hubby dating times super stingy. Everything on dutch. Now married with kid for 10 years. Hubby has a car n earning quite a good pay. Hubby wants my friend to be stay home. Hubby refuses to take care of son , but not giving my friend any money . She falls sick she has to pay for her own medical. She used up all her saving and could not even afford to buy pad. Now working part time in cafe to earn money for her own self. After work still need to fetch son from school . Hubby doesn even allow her to use household CDC voucher. Friend said she would divorce her hubby when child is an adult. Currently she just tolerate such living as she was born in a very poor family which used to stay in rented flat all her whole life. Parents passed away at young age but her bro financially supports her too.
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Aiya, dating time everything also sweet. Real things is when married and honeymoon period is over...
 
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TS, you sompa! You sure you don't already have another girlfriend already? Why suddenly want divorce. The new gf waiting for you ijjit?
 
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