Divorce Procedure -

[fandango]

Let assume the flat is 750K. I contributed one third... So should be 250K...

How come you 1/3 and she 2/3?

 

[iam7377]

TS, you sompa! You sure you don't already have another girlfriend already? Why suddenly want divorce. The new gf waiting for you ijjit?

Are u alright?

 

[iam7377]

How come you 1/3 and she 2/3?

I earn lesser mah...

 

[fandango]

Are u alright?

Me ish alright lar.

 

[fandango]

I earn lesser mah...

Then you also just fight to split the proceed mah. How can just give to her for free?

 

[iam7377]

Then you also just fight to split the proceed mah. How can just give to her for free?

I just want give her something la,

 

[GoodEnergy]

TS, if you still love her, perhaps go for marriage counselling first.

It is normal for problems to surface in marriage, apart from 柴米油盐, people tend to take each other for granted after marriage.

 

[Ayumix6]

Take care TS... wish you all the best
stay safe ya

 

[iam7377]

TS, if you still love her, perhaps go for marriage counselling first.

It is normal for problems to surface in marriage, apart from 柴米油盐, people tend to take each other for granted after marriage.

I not sure, coz when I share with her, she seems very sensitive and defensive. U sure got use?

I am my wits end that why I asking here...

 

[iam7377]

Take care TS... wish you all the best
stay safe ya

Thanks

 

[Yuripa]

1) Speak to family service centre counselors 1st for therapy sessions to figure out what you want.

2) Engage a lawyer to protect yourself. Not complicated cases probably +/-sgd$3k at best. Complicated cases up to 5 figure amount also can.

3) Lawyer will ask you to obtain a certificate that states you wanna divorce, this is usually issued by the family service centers. You will have to go for a short seminar beforehand.

Goodluck and all the best TS.

 

[ChuppaChups]

Huh? Like that one meh?

Not true la.. go make appointment and see lawyer.

 

[Acetone]

I earn lesser mah...

This is the problem, no dignity.

Anyway divorce is simple, especially if both parties agree to it and settle on the marital asset split.

 

[iam7377]

This is the problem, no dignity.

Sadly yes...

 

[ahnyaahnya]

Live separately for 3 years first.

That's the first step to qualify.

Unreasonable behaviour is hard to prove. Cheat on you, you got evidence?

Got cheated on can divorce faster? I dont think so

 

[V_for_Vanilla]

I intend to divorce but also give her the house...

You should fight for what is rightfully yours. Instead of capitulation.

 

[Mclairs83]

try to go for uncontested and state amicably what both of you all want.

else prepare to pay money to lawyers.

 

[GoodEnergy]

Sounded like my friend. Hubby dating times super stingy. Everything on dutch. Now married with kid for 10 years. Hubby has a car n earning quite a good pay. Hubby wants my friend to be stay home. Hubby refuses to take care of son , but not giving my friend any money . She falls sick she has to pay for her own medical. She used up all her saving and could not even afford to buy pad. Now working part time in cafe to earn money for her own self. After work still need to fetch son from school . Hubby doesn even allow her to use household CDC voucher. Friend said she would divorce her hubby when child is an adult. Currently she just tolerate such living as she was born in a very poor family which used to stay in rented flat all her whole life. Parents passed away at young age but her bro financially supports her too.

haha..your friend is better than my friend. My friend has the "reversed role". She is the one working and is the main breadwinner and hubby drives phv but gambles whenever he has money and not only did not give her a cent but sometimes still borrow money from her to pay petrol. My friend pays for everything in the household, including their family trips. One day, the hubby can said by right she should pay for the "grab fees" when she asked him to drive the daughter to school....can you imagine?

I guess, we always can find people whose lives are more complicated

 

[EdenHazard]

Very drain and tired... I think just proceed...

Any kids bro?

 

[iam7377]

Any kids bro?

No kids...