Divorce Procedure -

[iam7377]

just curious. How long the relationship before both of you married?

3 to 4 years plus...

 

[iam7377]

On surface does friends and family see u guys as a loving couple?

Yeah, they do. I think so...

 

[iam7377]

U need to find a lawyer...this is the most difficult 1st thing to do.

Then u need to decide if is contested or non contested.

And don't go for the cheapest lawyer. The cheapest lawyer means only do paperwork for u instead of helping u defend ur interest.

Alright, noted with thanks. Thanks bro.

 

[iam7377]

If her action were akin to giving you a chance to reconcile, would you grab it?

Yeah,.but hopefully she will change lo. If not same thing...

 

[iam7377]

Just an update. We did talk it out and decide to improve on communication. I dunno what will happened next.

Thanks everyone for their concern. Hopefully everything will be sorted out.

 

[iam7377]

Better think twice unless u r rich...

Me not rich. But I think I got enough savings for another flat should I divorce.

 

[iam7377]

then she dont deserve u putting water.unless she paid for most of the house.

She paid 2/3
I paid 1/3

 

[iam7377]

Why don't you just talk to your parents and move back to their place for a couple of months?

If she doesn't care about your feelings, and if you feel your life or mental health substantially improves as a result, perhaps divorce is the right choice.

We talk it out the past few days, but got quarrel abit, she wanted fetch me but I took.bus to another place.

When I came home, she talk to me and we decide to sort things out, I am unsure how long it lasted before we quarrel again...

 

[iam7377]

is TS he wanna end it Liao…..

Now it better. We got discuss and sort things out. Hopefully things get better...

 

[iam7377]

As long you take care of her financial burden you dun own her anything Liao….. have a new start and enjoy life cos is short

We sort things out Liao... Thanks bro. Hopefully everything goes well...

 

[iam7377]

Then it's annulment within 3 years, not divorce. Unless its a shotgun.

https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/how-to-annul-a-marriage/

P/S: Marriage is a marathon, not a sprint. If only within 3yrs "feel drained", you are gonna feel that way with every single marriage you land into subsequently. Start asking yourself what went wrong, what did she do and what did you do. There's a diff between complete incompatibility vs petty squabbles.

Oh, thanks bro.

 

[bobo07]

Now it better. We got discuss and sort things out. Hopefully things get better...

so make up seck solve everything liao......

 

[iam7377]

And don't tell us before marriage not like that lor.

Yeah, is like that. But maybe not staying together, then less friction...

 

[iam7377]

i lazy to read every post.
can share why u nv see these red flag before marrying her and despite these steel proceed to marry her?
priest share so can help all e bbfa brahs here.. thanks.

Dating is diff from marriage...

 

[iam7377]

Spoilt as in? Stamp feet and pout if can't get her way?
What do most guys deem that as during courtship? Cute?

Sensitive? Overthinking everything? Everything has got to do with "your ex" and everything is always "you aim me one"?

View and decision are self centered...

 

[Iamdone]

We talk it out the past few days, but got quarrel abit, she wanted fetch me but I took.bus to another place.

When I came home, she talk to me and we decide to sort things out, I am unsure how long it lasted before we quarrel again...

Feel for you bro. Similar situation, divorced uncontested. Jiayou

 

[iam7377]

Ok good thing no children.

If have children, thinking of their welfare makes the marriage stronger.

Yeah no children...

 

[iam7377]

I understand how you're feeling.

You're feeling tired and you're afraid of hurting yourself.

That's why you need to give urself a chance to seek counseling from trained professionals, they are there to assist and support you in times like these.

Its good you're posting here to get some feedbacks but ultimately you will need to be braver and stronger and render correct help from family service centers etc.

There are many things to resolve but the 1st and foremost is to settle your emotional conflicts. At the very least, you owe this to yourself.

Good news is we sort out our issues. Hopefully it stays that way...

I really appreciate your advise...

 

[iam7377]

I cant divorce my hands

Erm... No comments...

 

[iam7377]

you got PM

Okay bro...