Hi guys, i'm considering a PAM after selling off my current watch, i do have a small wrist thus i cant pull off a 44mm which most pams are. Are there any PAM with 40 - 42 mm for my consideration?
Small/big wrist is relative. Suggest you try it on and see for yourself. Look at how it looks on people with other wrist sizes on the internet. General concensus is the maximum you want to go is when the lugs align to the width of your wrist, and the straps fall almost vertically down the sides.
Also bear in mind, this is often not mentioned. It is not just about your wrist, but more so about your overall body size, height, arm size etc which can also dramatically change if you put on say 5kg, lose 5kg (other than height of course

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I'm 175 tall, 65 to 70 heavy with a 6.5 to 6.75 inch wrist, generally muscular build. Can carry a 47mm PAM without looking strange. Bear in mind PAMs are meant to look big, compared to your typical 40mm diver. Recerntly saw an Ang Moh size wise bigger than me, about 6 feet, wrist looks 7-8 inch, he was sporting what looked like a 50mm-ish watch to have the big, chunky look. But don't wear a PAM with lugs that overhang your wrist and if you are petite, scrawny framed (but women with PAMs can carry it off

)...that's the general concensus.