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Old 08-11-2019, 11:43 AM   #1
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Age 47 to get married and have Kid?

It is ok to get married and have kid at age 47?
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Old 08-11-2019, 12:21 PM   #2
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It is ok to get married and have kid at age 47?
you M or F?
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Old 08-11-2019, 01:46 PM   #3
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Old 08-11-2019, 01:51 PM   #4
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If you are ready to shoulder responsibility and almost totally change your lifestyle, why not?

Kids bring happiness to your life but not everyday is holiday lah... also need to handle their tantrums. When they are in their teens, you worry most for them...

Question is : ARE YOU READY?
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Old 08-11-2019, 02:10 PM   #5
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I m worry abt financially as i dont earn much..
if i lose my job n is very hard to find another job at my age..
how am i going to feed my kid n wife?
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What you working as??
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Old 08-11-2019, 02:54 PM   #7
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I m worry abt financially as i dont earn much..
if i lose my job n is very hard to find another job at my age..
how am i going to feed my kid n wife?
don't need to worry de
in SG everyone can get married and raise kids
all kids can go to school de and every school is a good school
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I m worry abt financially as i dont earn much..
if i lose my job n is very hard to find another job at my age..
how am i going to feed my kid n wife?
That depends on your lifestyle and expectations of your wife...

Some wanna give the best to kid ie drink expensive formula, go private childcare, use merries diaper and the list goes on. There are economical ways to raise a kid.

For job wise, can share your occupation and current salary range?
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How to bro? Female canít anymore.adopt can.
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Old 08-11-2019, 10:09 PM   #10
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That depends on your lifestyle and expectations of your wife...

Some wanna give the best to kid ie drink expensive formula, go private childcare, use merries diaper and the list goes on. There are economical ways to raise a kid.

For job wise, can share your occupation and current salary range?
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Old 08-11-2019, 10:11 PM   #11
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How to bro? Female canít anymore.adopt can.
She 41. Still can?
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Old 08-11-2019, 10:52 PM   #12
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it all depend on the body. u can consult a doctor but it high risk for a woman that age with the first baby.
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:38 AM   #13
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Assuming that you are 47 now, about to get married. Earliest the baby come out, you will be 48.
When the kid is a toddler, want to run around and you have to chase the kid, can you do that? When the kid want to kick a football around, play active sports, can you do that? This is an answer that only you can answer.
Ask the doctor if it is safe or advisable for your woman to give birth at 42 or above. If have to go for IVF, that will be very, very expensive. Most gynaes will recommend IVF because that is a cash cow for them.
When your kid grow up to become a teenager, tertiary education is very expensive. Hope you will have budgeted for it by then.
Money is a major consideration in Singapore. Adult's physical body clock is another.
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Old 09-11-2019, 11:42 AM   #14
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She 41. Still can?
this one must see dr to body check up then can tell
heard of some ladies 30+ already no eggs left
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Old 09-11-2019, 12:10 PM   #15
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It is ok to get married and have kid at age 47?
You calculate yourself.

Have kids at 47 (sorry, no such thing as one shot one kill unless you Commando Sniper Section), that means when your kid is 21yrs old (legal age of majority where your kid is ready to go out to the workforce), you are 68yrs old liao.

If your kid study until Uni Hons, that means graduate 25yrs old liao. Find a job, give and take 6mths to a year. You will be 72 to 73yrs old liao.

Unless you subscribe to the epic stupid notion that "My child work, they should give me money for my retirement" and not handle retirement by yourself OR you already settled for retirement and you have excess; then go ahead.
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