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Old 12-01-2017, 11:03 PM   #76
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Mine ar, ROM that day during dinner treat she openly say to my wife "以后就要粗茶淡饭了, wtf?
Then she want my wife to go back msia do some Chinese traditional stuff for wedding on a Sunday, then I want to bring wifey to a housewarming on Saturday, also say cannot. Din even clash with her plans then a quarrel follows.
First day move in to new flat, come my place to hang red banner knn I don't believe in such stuff one lor, if let her stay in dunno will bring altar in Bo.
Now not really on talking terms, can siam I siam far far
Some ppl are superstitious to avoid clashes.
Ask them to open up the lunar calender see which is 比較 吉。
Can siam siam.
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:05 PM   #77
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Super naggy type of mil is very annoying, especially little little thing will make into a big deal. Say certain things/instructions must say like 4-5 times on repeat.

Example: Our baby standing X meters away from tv, she said cannot too close to tv, got radiation, move her back 10-15cm then she is ok with it. Like that little distance is gonna make a difference. Okayyyyyyy....

Then comment about the way you take care of the baby as if it is her own baby and as long as you don't do it the way she does it, like carrying the baby a certain way, high chance she will comment and tell you to hold baby her way because safer, because baby will feel more comfy etc.

She generally means well but holy shiet it is enough to drive any sane man up the wall.
When she is there listen lor.
Dun want to be an issue.
有時聽聽就好。
Remember it is for your kids' wellness as well.
都是為大家好。
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:08 PM   #78
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No idea. Totally not in contact after she decided to end everything
She initiated? How old are you all?
ex-mil didn't show her colours when you were dating her daughter?
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:11 PM   #79
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Anyone blow up in front of ur mil before? Wad happened then ?
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:13 PM   #80
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Nvr blow up cos cut line with her liao. Jintao siao one.
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:14 PM   #81
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Do you all give monthly allowance to mil?
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:22 PM   #82
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Lesson learnt, never stay with in laws...

Knn always say my house haunted.

First HDB, said ghost disturbing her, she went to get amulet pasted on her bedroom door.

Moved to current condo, knn still said my house haunted again...

I one day buay lun after 10 years chased her out...my wife sister lan lan rented a studio for her to stay..

My wife sister also a cb.. she knew her mother pattern, die die dunwan mil to stay with her

For then peaceful all the way
But then the ghost in your condo how?
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Old 12-01-2017, 11:35 PM   #83
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But then the ghost in your condo how?
Follows her ba.

Now my house is peaceful

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Old 13-01-2017, 06:32 AM   #84
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U don't little bit little bit also buay song la
U sounded like a Niao person. U know she means well already just be more understanding la, sometimes it's the way old ppl do things.
She say 1 time, u like no response, so she repeat la. She repeat also waste her breath not your breath.
Last time I stay wif my mil. Also buay song when she said.

But hor after shifted out, I able to take her comments like pinch of salt.

As long dun stay together not facing each other often .. the conflicts dun arise so easily.

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Old 13-01-2017, 06:36 AM   #85
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Where do I start.

Better not, one day she might come across this thread.

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Old 13-01-2017, 06:43 AM   #86
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I've seen before mil from hell. Everyday play a wedge between husband and wife. My sil run away and separated from her husband till today.
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Old 13-01-2017, 07:00 AM   #87
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I like my mother in law

my mother in law like me
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Old 13-01-2017, 07:09 AM   #88
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Moi MIL will bee dah best beecos moi mum treat mee rike shiat.

Cos of moi mum, I tink dah best for mee ish not to get married, I dun wanna drag another person suffer with moi..

Cos moi wify sure will bee tekan jialat and kana bullied, no $marnee to buy another property to move out, cannot marry..

一山不容二虎, one tiger ish moi mum and the other huan moi wify. They sure will fight gao lat gao lat beecos I know moi future wify also beri dah hot tempered
your english gives everyone cancer here.
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Old 13-01-2017, 07:11 AM   #89
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Disappointed. I tot i read as "do you have a f cup mother in law"...
yes, i was expecting some GPGT too similar to this.

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Old 13-01-2017, 07:11 AM   #90
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Tbh, every time cny dam sian coz have to visit in laws. But when go back my family side feels so peaceful and happy. Lol.
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