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Old 05-03-2019, 03:54 PM   #1
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How to be a good/model parent to your kids?

Everyone has flaws. Some more than others. Your own flaws can be a result of your family bringing you up when you were still a child, or through your actions or interactions with people around you.

So how can one be a good parent to their own kids if their own perception to certain subjects are flawed? How can we impart values to our kids if we ourselves as parents do not know how to solve life problems?

How can we improve ourselves to have good characters so that we can then teach our children these values?
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Old 02-04-2019, 01:27 PM   #2
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Someone told me before it's about being consistent in your words and actions. If you said no, dont turn around and say yes later. If not then the kid will know to keep trying their luck till you change your mind.
Talk to your kids like an adult and explain to them the reason so that they will understand.
Guess that's my main takeaway about being a good role model
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Old 05-04-2019, 09:51 AM   #3
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Pay attention to them, and not the phone.
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Old 05-04-2019, 11:00 PM   #4
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Wack them.
Just like how your parent wack u.
U turn out fine right??

Y wana change ??

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Old 05-04-2019, 11:02 PM   #5
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Spend quality time to bond with them.
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Old 06-04-2019, 09:32 AM   #6
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Wack them.
Just like how your parent wack u.
U turn out fine right??

Y wana change ??

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Are you really a parent? I've whacked my child before and felt absolutely horrible about myself after. It's not the best way to be a parent.

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Old 07-04-2019, 08:17 AM   #7
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Are you really a parent? I've whacked my child before and felt absolutely horrible about myself after. It's not the best way to be a parent.
I have 1 boy 1 girl .

Don't feel good about it but sometimes have to do it.

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Old 14-04-2019, 09:06 PM   #8
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Everyone has flaws. Some more than others. Your own flaws can be a result of your family bringing you up when you were still a child, or through your actions or interactions with people around you.

So how can one be a good parent to their own kids if their own perception to certain subjects are flawed? How can we impart values to our kids if we ourselves as parents do not know how to solve life problems?

How can we improve ourselves to have good characters so that we can then teach our children these values?
difficult act to balance
when strict with kids, the other half may feel your method of teaching is too inflexible / harsh

end up self doubt in own way of teaching
at least that is how i feel
end up like being too strict also wrong
being lenient also wrong
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