Basic rule is if one is married, should have his / her own home. 3 room flat also can. Would u like to live with your wife's parent for years and years?
Bingo. Don't take the high ground unless you can say 100% you would accept the other way.
Basic rule is if one is married, should have his / her own home. 3 room flat also can. Would u like to live with your wife's parent for years and years?
Yes feedbacked for past 1 yr plus
Ask ur wife why the negativity towards ur mum. Talk to ur mum, ask her to have some social life. As a middle person you need to please both sides, it's not easy but u need to try and not find an easy solution.
So how??
If let her move in..wife daily kpkb...already now affected yr marital life
If push her to sibling flat...ppl may say im unfilial
U think your wife only buay tahan your mom at hm do nothing only? ** TS u ******* know abt your wife bo? U betta ask your wife show hand she buay song simi.
Really face palm u need to ask this kind of question here.
Does it irritate you that your mom does nothing much at hm?
Say yr wife just hates the sight of seeing yr mum at home and it makes her angry and irritated..yr mum does nothing but sits in living room watch tv from day to night...and doesnt pay any household bills..she helps with washing clothes and cleaning the flat..mum doesnt work...dont go out at all..cope at home everyday..healthy
Now yr new flat coming..would you still ask yr mum to stay with u all?
So how??
If let her move in..wife daily kpkb...already now affected yr marital life
If push her to sibling flat...ppl may say im unfilial
She's dead. Hello, I am 60yoWould u live with your mother in law long term?
My mom also like that. But that's cos she has low self esteem or maybe shy.. if we don't bring her out, she doesn't and will stay at home and watch TV or do housework.Have tried advising my mum but she doesnt want to change...she just watch tv from day to night in living room...dependent on family..if noone takes her out...she doesnt go out
Finally, someone notices. Love you!BTW happy bird day, u were 59 not too long ago
Dun worri unty neo Judy, I will move in with my mother in law instead. He he..
Not abt getting rid of who. Is whether you all will still let mum move in ur new flat with u and yr wife? But yr wife sees yr mum everyday lie at home do nothing and shake leg in her living room will get angry and pissed...cos she feels she is workinh so hard while the mum is enjoying life and shaking leg in her flat
Or ask her stay in yr sibling house?