to post on facebook after they are born
then post on instagram of their yearly birthday, the 1st bday being most important
then hao lian their results when they are primary 1
after that.... it is pretty much heartache all the way if they become pai kia
Overheard two person chatting in the train oneday, one of them said, 'Children are burden'.
Kindof true depend on your objectives of having children.
If you want kids just because your parents say so or your friends are having kids, then be aware of the consequences after having kids.
If you want kids purely cos you like kids, then congrats.