Chanterelle
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haha. i chalk it up to cant have everything in life go so smoothly...Wow if moi was the crush will merry chiu at the speed of light
haha. i chalk it up to cant have everything in life go so smoothly...Wow if moi was the crush will merry chiu at the speed of light
Told you we can fill in the male sample size for your researchmy aunties friends all urging me to marry... said scared i old will be lonely.
my uncle colleagues more philosophical, said there are good and bad sides of marriage lah. will come one will come.
the younger ones all tried to console me saying i have time (females), males idk since not big enough sample size(lol).
20 yrs older? That's a big gap leh. but i guess you learnt a lot from them too. i like talking to older people because their thinking is sometimes so different from mine, it gives me perspective.
i also experienced this with guys. just normal convo. then one day blue tick never reply back.This can also be a convenient excuse cooked up by gers to tell bbfas they are not interested, also termed by JJ korkor as 善意谎言. Bbfas need to be very wary of this to avoid getting heartbroken too often
It will be hard to get confirmation in the early stages as neither side owes the other anything yet this at this point
Excuse to distance themselves from you, but then there is not much point except to move forwardThis can also be a convenient excuse cooked up by gers to tell bbfas they are not interested, also termed by JJ korkor as 善意谎言. Bbfas need to be very wary of this to avoid getting heartbroken too often
It will be hard to get confirmation in the early stages as neither side owes the other anything yet this at this point
Told you we can fill in the male sample size for your research
yeah if i feel annoyed come edmw blow some steam...Told you we can fill in the male sample size for your research
actually he is a good guy, he did look out for me and didn't take advantage of my infatuation.At least he didn't lead u on la. Love is supposed to a two way traffic after all. I respect him for that.
hmmm yup pretty much hit the nail on the head.Can I kpo and ask their profiles? Above average looking dudes holding on to good jobs?
Noo must meet us then counted to be authentic enough for your researchyeah if i feel annoyed come edmw blow some steam...
actually he is a good guy, he did look out for me and didn't take advantage of my infatuation.
Is true bbfas come in all shape and (plus) sizes
Have u also taken longer to reply before e.g. half a day? And the reason for it, was it due to having less interests compared to other matches?hmmm yup pretty much hit the nail on the head.
one takes 8-10 hours to reply. by that time i started chatting with new people liao.
but the whole cycle is pretty tiring. its always start off with quick replies. then dunno what to say, slow down liao. sometimes if i feel its nearing the death spiral, if there's chance i will hint like wyd on the weekend etc. but taking hours to reply, cannot lah. havent started already interest not there, how to begin.
I probably will take quite a long time if I'm very busy with work. And to be honest I can understand if the other party takes some time to reply too.Have u also taken longer to reply before e.g. half a day? And the reason for it, was it due to having less interests compared to other matches?
Have u given dead responses before?
To me, this kind of reply doesn't seem to make a difference. There was a match who said that to me, and only replied my messages a few days later...wthCan always msg back or set respond such as : I am busy right now at certain times.... . Or get back to you soon leh ...instead of putting people in suspend mode ..it also show that you are willing to commit
It do....lar ...at least it you put you on guessing whether is she want to be friends boh . rather than once match put you on suspension and guess modeTo me, this kind of reply doesn't seem to make a difference. There was a match who said that to me, and only replied my messages a few days later...wth
yeah, I had a match she takes one day to reply per convo. After our first meetup, she replies instantly (I'm not even kidding, like instant blue tick instant reply).And I've collected some statistics on my matches...most girls won't reply as fast at first (probably coz they have a lot of matches to deal with? or unsure). But a fair few will start replying faster and faster. Those are the ones showing interest.
You guys know my date last Sunday? she replies me damn fast now despite work lol. And she went to auto arrange a date without asking me some more. Sadly I'm busy due to work zzz.
Still too early to say haha. This has happened a few times before, but somehow just realised both parties not suitable for each other hmmmSounds like u are going to graduate soon.
Able to share why not keen?yeah, I had a match she takes one day to reply per convo. After our first meetup, she replies instantly (I'm not even kidding, like instant blue tick instant reply).
Sadly I'm not keen
she's a better looker in picturesStill too early to say haha. This has happened a few times before, but somehow just realised both parties not suitable for each other hmmm
Able to share why not keen?