death and separation, how do you cope with the feeling of loss?

[zzzzzzz]

they say time heals all, but once in a while, memories return

 

[Atilas]

 

[meridian]

生离死别 没有办法的

 

[Flexamoria]

Just think you will be like them one day

 

[yokine3a]

Bear with it, there is nothing you can do.

For me is, I try not to think about the person as much as I can.

 

[zzzzzzz]

actually aclcohol doesnt numb
sometimes it is feel worse

 

[stingray1211]

pray to god , meditate, learn to control your mind.

nothing wrong to have memories of the past. human nature. but why does it affect you now ? past is past. got use meh ? since no use then why let it affect emotions ?


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[spunkbrat]

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

Christina Rossetti

 

[Ultima Online]

they say time heals all, but once in a while, memories return

Understanding what happens after death (from a non-religious perspective) helps.

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[Evcats]

Heaven isn’t about "floating on clouds"—it’s a family reunion in God’s presence, where every tear is healed and every promise kept.

"We will always be with the Lord" (1 Thessalonians 4:17).

 

[yokine3a]

actually aclcohol doesnt numb
sometimes it is feel worse

Being buddhist, I am not allowed to drink alcohol, so I do chanting everyday and pass the merit to the person, hopefully he can reborn to a better place in next life.

 

[archie7]

have to go with the flow and let time do its work

grief is non linear
comes and goes when you least expected and hits you like a train wreck out of the blue when you think you are feeling ok

 

[XcoVar]

Sigh...received a bad news today. Doctor said wife's brother only have 3 - 4 months to live. Initial prognosis was stage 1 liver cancer a month back and today they said it's oredi spreading.

 

[zzzzzzz]

Being buddhist, I am not allowed to drink alcohol, so I do chanting everyday and pass the merit to the person, hopefully he can reborn to a better place in next life.

i am buddhist
i am alcoholic

 

[Hahahaman]

 

[Peasantboy]

I’ve been lucky so far…. No one close to me has died… or maybe I’m not close to many people…

Im sorry separation isn’t easy… maybe religion is the best hope… that we may be reunited again… on the other side of heaven and all the stories we will have to tell each other

 

[mocax]

observe the thoughts and let them pass through... dun try to stop it or avoid it...

 

[Mr Duck]

they say time heals all, but once in a while, memories return

First week very painful, one month still thinking of. Six months later will still think of when lonely. One year later will think of my life still need to goes on. 2 years later 舞照跳马照跑。

 

[meridian]

actually aclcohol doesnt numb
sometimes it is feel worse

Yes down 2 bottles of wine and feel more muddy

 

[kalipo]

Time don’t heals