解签 - Decipher of Divination lots from Temples

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Hi Master Zhou, wow you're very spot on. This guy is in between introvert and extrovert. He's quite chatty with me, I'm more introvert than him. We dated for a while last year, but he was not ready for a relationship due to some personal matters. We stayed in touch. However, when we talk, it's because I initiate the convo with him. If I don't initiate, he also won't start the convo.

Actually I have asked Guanyinma about him a few times, whether his is my 缘分, and got shengbei each time. (Actually come to think of it, quite silly to ask about 缘分 when I dunno this guy v well yet.) I also asked about a different guy I dated and got a straight NO, and really turns out that guy got red flag.

Last month I also asked Guanyinma for advice on the same guy. Received lots 31, 87, 4 (same SOP). Seems like her message is also to wait for the right time. That's why my heart feels 困境.

Dear mgx, thank you for your well wishes!
Update us here when u are his gf, keep ppl here to have faith
 

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Hello! I visited the temple today to ask about this guy that I previously asked about because we dated for 4-5 months and ended things. Back then, I asked if there's a 2nd chance for things to work out between us and I got Lot 81. Came into this thread to ask for an interpretation and someone said i need to wait until after Autumn, i.e. Dec 2024. We actually reconnected again in Dec 2024.... then started talking from there and saw each other in Jan again but we only have been going out for a month... then realised there were some issues again. i decided maybe it's best to end things so i went ahead with that...

but i really like this guy and hope for things to work out, so i went to the temple today to ask for guidance. asked if there's a chance of us working out again and got lot 43... can someone interpret this for me? p.s for the lor sor backstory :cry:
 

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Thank you for explain the lots that I’ve gotten! Actually my job is in sales and I’m still in the transition of learning to adapt to sales, maybe that’s why it’s abit of challenges in the initial stage
May I check as I’m intending to do social media marketing for my sales, can I interpret it as social media is not the way as it is quite high profile( need to be high profile and post )
For this i not sure, have to check with Gym using sheng bei.
 

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Hello! I visited the temple today to ask about this guy that I previously asked about because we dated for 4-5 months and ended things. Back then, I asked if there's a 2nd chance for things to work out between us and I got Lot 81. Came into this thread to ask for an interpretation and someone said i need to wait until after Autumn, i.e. Dec 2024. We actually reconnected again in Dec 2024.... then started talking from there and saw each other in Jan again but we only have been going out for a month... then realised there were some issues again. i decided maybe it's best to end things so i went ahead with that...

but i really like this guy and hope for things to work out, so i went to the temple today to ask for guidance. asked if there's a chance of us working out again and got lot 43... can someone interpret this for me? p.s for the lor sor backstory :cry:
Hi just to confirm if Gym only want to give you 1 lot ?
 

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Hello! I visited the temple today to ask about this guy that I previously asked about because we dated for 4-5 months and ended things. Back then, I asked if there's a 2nd chance for things to work out between us and I got Lot 81. Came into this thread to ask for an interpretation and someone said i need to wait until after Autumn, i.e. Dec 2024. We actually reconnected again in Dec 2024.... then started talking from there and saw each other in Jan again but we only have been going out for a month... then realised there were some issues again. i decided maybe it's best to end things so i went ahead with that...

but i really like this guy and hope for things to work out, so i went to the temple today to ask for guidance. asked if there's a chance of us working out again and got lot 43... can someone interpret this for me? p.s for the lor sor backstory :cry:
i rmb u, i was the one who told u Dec 2024 :frown:
 
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Oh!!! yes!! hahaha really quite zhun
if u only got 1 lot,
things are still evolving and should not be rushed, What fell apart once can come together again, but only at the right time.

自营自养自安然 suggests that before things can work out with him, you need to ensure personal emotional stability and clarity. If you jump back into things too quickly, the same problems may arise again.

You or him should not be too picky or focusing too much on flaws (不拘小节), and both of you need to learn to accept imperfections in each other. A healthy relationship doesn’t require perfection, it requires understanding.

Overall, it may be challenging, and require efforts from both sides, but at the end of the day if both of you can overcome it, you will end up in bliss

Note: if u have more than 1, then this interpretation is incomplete, you may need to go back ask kym if really no more, if still have please try again
 

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if u only got 1 lot,
things are still evolving and should not be rushed, What fell apart once can come together again, but only at the right time.

自营自养自安然 suggests that before things can work out with him, you need to ensure personal emotional stability and clarity. If you jump back into things too quickly, the same problems may arise again.

You or him should not be too picky or focusing too much on flaws (不拘小节), and both of you need to learn to accept imperfections in each other. A healthy relationship doesn’t require perfection, it requires understanding.

Overall, it may be challenging, and require efforts from both sides, but at the end of the day if both of you can overcome it, you will end up in bliss

Note: if u have more than 1, then this interpretation is incomplete, you may need to go back ask kym if really no more, if still have please try again

ahh! thank you so much for the interpretation! ok i'll try and go back to ask gym if there's still more lots or only this. but if only 1 - seems like it needs more effort to make things work.. which i don't think he's able to do for now due to his issues... i'll see how it goes, thank u so much! :D
 

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hello! i wanted to ask if more lots were given but i went with my mum today... then she said no need for that... was thinking if i should go back and ask again :cry:
I see..

its best to check with Gym again. if not the advice wont be accurate or half info only (half info is not equivalent to full advise)

You can let Gym know that you came on which date (ddmmyy) to ask about (your question) and received lot 43 so would like to ask if there is a 2nd lot after lot 43 ? if yes, please give you 1 sheng bei and you throw.
 

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I see..

its best to check with Gym again. if not the advice wont be accurate or half info only (half info is not equivalent to full advise)

You can let Gym know that you came on which date (ddmmyy) to ask about (your question) and received lot 43 so would like to ask if there is a 2nd lot after lot 43 ? if yes, please give you 1 sheng bei and you throw.
oh! okay will use this format :D thank you zxx master!
 

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Update us here when u are his gf, keep ppl here to have faith
Hi mgx, your message is so qiao. Since my last message, I was still on the fence because I 百感交集. Went to guanyinma to pray last weekend and asked her (shengbei method) when I should ask this guy out. Ans: mar, may, or june

Next day I saw your reply.. so I dropped him a message and we met for a short dinner.. but nth much happened after that.

Have dated other guys but my feelings are the strongest for him. But somehow, nth seems to happen between us. Maybe it's not the right time :(
 

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Hi Master Zhou and MGX,
I've been to the Bugis temple and asked GYM 2 questions about my ex and me due to some occurrences within these 1.5 months or so. I asked GYM for qian to hear J
Her advice instead of Yes/No using shengbei method.

My 1st question was "How does he feel about me, if he has positive feelings for me?" I received lot 73, no more lots for me from GYM.

2nd question was again (I asked this question before), "Do I stand a chance of being together with him in the future?" I received lot 78, followed by lot 81.

How would you interpret the lots I received? Thanks a lot.
 

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Hi Master Zhou and MGX,
I've been to the Bugis temple and asked GYM 2 questions about my ex and me due to some occurrences within these 1.5 months or so. I asked GYM for qian to hear J
Her advice instead of Yes/No using shengbei method.

My 1st question was "How does he feel about me, if he has positive feelings for me?" I received lot 73, no more lots for me from GYM.
Hi.

For asking advice, only 1 question like "How does he feel about me" cannot mix a yes no question to go with it.
so for your case, the lot is mean for the first part = How does he feel about me

if we look at the lot 73, based on your question, it did not say who he feels about you. instead Gym wish to tell you if you want to be with him or has the intention to be with him, you have to take actions to go after him so he will then relook into his feeling for you.

My take is now it seems like he dont really care or bother about you.

2nd question was again (I asked this question before), "Do I stand a chance of being together with him in the future?" I received lot 78, followed by lot 81.

How would you interpret the lots I received? Thanks a lot.
For this question, need to use sheng bei method to be specific and accurate.
 

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Hi.

For asking advice, only 1 question like "How does he feel about me" cannot mix a yes no question to go with it.
so for your case, the lot is mean for the first part = How does he feel about me

if we look at the lot 73, based on your question, it did not say who he feels about you. instead Gym wish to tell you if you want to be with him or has the intention to be with him, you have to take actions to go after him so he will then relook into his feeling for you.

My take is now it seems like he dont really care or bother about you.


For this question, need to use sheng bei method to be specific and accurate.
Ok, thanks, Master Zhou
 

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Hi.

For asking advice, only 1 question like "How does he feel about me" cannot mix a yes no question to go with it.
so for your case, the lot is mean for the first part = How does he feel about me

if we look at the lot 73, based on your question, it did not say who he feels about you. instead Gym wish to tell you if you want to be with him or has the intention to be with him, you have to take actions to go after him so he will then relook into his feeling for you.

My take is now it seems like he dont really care or bother about you.


For this question, need to use sheng bei method to be specific and accurate.
Hi Master Zhou, I'd like to clarify that I did try my best to forget him and move on, based on GYM'S advice from the moonblocks outcomes and lots I had received previously. However, I'm unable to let go of our relationship completely because he has been constantly giving my Instagram posts "likes", with occasional comments. We are supposed to not communicate with each other in any way ever since we parted ways. I am perplexed why he's doing this. Thus, I can't help but think that it could be his way of reaching out to me. Or is he just playing tricks on me?

Master Zhou, I understand that matters of the heart can be complex and unpredictable. Would Guan Yin Ma also find it challenging to provide a definitive answer when emotions are involved?
 
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as what zxx shu shu previously said, yes / no answer like prediction if X will "come true" or not, is "not answerable".

definitive answer can be for if X is a good choice, if X is a correct move, if X is your zheng yuan, etc.

If X will come true or not depends on many factors, including ur own actions, different circumstances, external influences. Someone here previously got sheng bei and got an opposite outcome, come here and complain kym is inaccurate, this sort of case, we duno how to help
 
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