Ex gf got accident baby with fling

Encouragesome1

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Ask me to be other kid father and marry her. How.

She cried 3 days. Now undergoing the worst nightmare of her life..I pity her

Ask my good frz. My frz told me that's her problem. Ask me Mai chap
Just ignore la , why u want to get involved ?
 

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I also ask her to give birth. She told later how people see her and how to tell her mother. Her future how she ask me
Ownself before creating baby nv ask herself , make alr now ask how ? She need to wake up her idea man … she teenager a ?
 

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But baby will treat me well when grow up
This is no guarantee and nothing is known until the day you rip, don’t pine on other ppl to treat us well or not well …
just do our part and live a meaningful life

leave the outcomes as it is

lkk hv one uncle whole 1x yr paying for wifey n kids (one supposedly own kid .. rest of kids supposed wife sister kid)
Kid now teenager also not close to him at all. Wifey stay overseas only visit him half a day a year. Please don’t trust “you take care”of a child they will love u back, a child will only appreciate the one who has a close knitted rs with him. Not others faraway and unseen and absent father or uncle or whoever.
 

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Another possibility. What if she runs away after giving birth but leaves the child to you?

Now you have a wife in name but no actual wife

You can’t marry cos legally you are married until you divorce

You are now responsible for bringing up the kid

You want to marry again but now any potential future wife thinks the kid is yours and doesn’t want buy 1 get 1 free

Now you are raising a kid who never experienced a mother’s love and YOU are seen to be at fault but you feel resentful cos the kid is not even yours
Wlwlsmdwl when not even own kid 🫣
 

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This is no guarantee and nothing is known until the day you rip, don’t pine on other ppl to treat us well or not well …
just do our part and live a meaningful life

leave the outcomes as it is

lkk hv one uncle whole 1x yr paying for wifey n kids (one supposedly own kid .. rest of kids supposed wife sister kid)
Kid now teenager also not close to him at all. Wifey stay overseas only visit him half a day a year. Please don’t trust “you take care”of a child they will love u back, a child will only appreciate the one who has a close knitted rs with him. Not others faraway and unseen and absent father or uncle or whoever.
which is why in many cases, when the father and mother divorce, the kids still choose mom even though the father may be the sole breadwinner taking on 2 jobs to support the ungrateful family. and the kids dont even wana see the dad after, because "not close" and not because the dad abused them or what.

i seen a few middle or old age man who divorce and they end up alone without family. no one really talks about this though, because it doesnt fit the mainstream narrative
 

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Wah lao. @itedino

Look at that wall over there. Go over there and bang your head on it and say I’m an idiot 1 hundred times

If your current girlfriend is super materialistic, maybe I can still accept but by your own admission “ground to earth, looking forward for a stable family etc”, you give her up for an ex who is pregnant with another man’s baby?
so conclusion is................there is really gong tao in this world
 

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Ask me to be other kid father and marry her. How.

She cried 3 days. Now undergoing the worst nightmare of her life..I pity her

Ask my good frz. My frz told me that's her problem. Ask me Mai chap
Need photo of ex gf to better advise :(
 
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