Loan Shark Harassment and how to stop it

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JamieJimmyNg

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No choice. If you took a loan then you have to work til you pay her back. Hope it’s not huge amount.

Yes , on July when I have my uml problem ..

Because of 1 mistake .. my whole life have been turn upside down .. so much for having hope ..
 

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So I'm now the hot topic for my company as everyone knows about my previous lending problem and uml/LML problem .. one gossip lead to another even my boss thinks that I'm uml myself ..

At first she said I have to leave .. after talking for awhile she doesn't let me leave and insisted I have only 2 choices .. 1 is to pay her back now and leave .. second is to work till I pay her back everything then leave .. but I really wanna leave now as I have no face to stay anymore .. too much gossip around for me to stay ..
Stay and pay her. Be a gentleman.
 

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Work out a plan to pay her back and also start finding a job. Consider it as a brand new start and don’t be disheartened by it. Your lady boss is being nice to ask you to slowly work and pay back than terminate you on the spot with no compensation. Now just swallow the humble pie.

Yeah.. nobody to blame but myself now ..
 

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Consolation is you still have the job and regular income at this point in time. Face doesnt really matters for now. Did your boss instruct the rest to say you no longer with the co when those buggers call?



So I'm now the hot topic for my company as everyone knows about my previous lending problem and uml/LML problem .. one gossip lead to another even my boss thinks that I'm uml myself ..

At first she said I have to leave .. after talking for awhile she doesn't let me leave and insisted I have only 2 choices .. 1 is to pay her back now and leave .. second is to work till I pay her back everything then leave .. but I really wanna leave now as I have no face to stay anymore .. too much gossip around for me to stay ..
 
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Consolation is you still have the job and regular income at this point in time. Face doesnt really matters for now. Did your boss instruct the rest to say you no longer with the co when those buggers call?

At first yes .. but now she told me she gonna call those person come down and collect if they want ..

Had a big scolding this morning about all this ..
 

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At first yes .. but now she told me she gonna call those person come down and collect if they want ..

Had a big scolding this morning about all this ..

Wa.. If they really come, might have drama in office.
 

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So I'm now the hot topic for my company as everyone knows about my previous lending problem and uml/LML problem .. one gossip lead to another even my boss thinks that I'm uml myself ..

At first she said I have to leave .. after talking for awhile she doesn't let me leave and insisted I have only 2 choices .. 1 is to pay her back now and leave .. second is to work till I pay her back everything then leave .. but I really wanna leave now as I have no face to stay anymore .. too much gossip around for me to stay ..

Bro trust me the gossip will only last for awhile. Maybe 2weeks or 1month? After that they will stop talking about it. Its just human nature. Just stay and concentrate about your job. Every storm will end with a rainbow and sun after that. Just stay strong. I encounter the same thing as you too, the gossips. Trust me. They will forget about it. If they talk about it just tell them to take you as a lesson.
 
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I'd keep the job you have a fantastic boss and it already happened and maybe if you stay you'd be a stronger person . Start anew , pay your boss and restart your life .

Yeah .. tbh she quite okay .. it's just that I made a mistake and really .. I have no one to blame but myself on this ..
 
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Bro trust me the gossip will only last for awhile. Maybe 2weeks or 1month? After that they will stop talking about it. Its just human nature. Just stay and concentrate about your job. Every storm will end with a rainbow and sun after that. Just stay strong. I encounter the same thing as you too, the gossips. Trust me. They will forget about it. If they talk about it just tell them to take you as a lesson.

Yeah .. I really just have to remain strong .. hopefully I can ..

Yeah I will try to keep all of this in mind and hopefully able to concentrate on my work ..
 

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Yeah .. I really just have to remain strong .. hopefully I can ..

Yeah I will try to keep all of this in mind and hopefully able to concentrate on my work ..

People make mistakes, but when one is brave enough to face their mistakes, I admire them for their courage.

Stay strong and tide over this period. Work out a good repayment plan with your boss and start afresh. Hopefully can tide you until you collect AWS/Bonus by the end of the year before leaving this workplace.

I wish you all the best of luck.
 
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People make mistakes, but when one is brave enough to face their mistakes, I admire them for their courage.

Stay strong and tide over this period. Work out a good repayment plan with your boss and start afresh. Hopefully can tide you until you collect AWS/Bonus by the end of the year before leaving this workplace.

I wish you all the best of luck.

Really really thanks alot bro .. it means alot to me ..
 
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Lml just send another debt collector to my house .. everyday send 1 ? Yesterday came . Today also .. tried calling bgss but to no avail ..
 

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Lml just send another debt collector to my house .. everyday send 1 ? Yesterday came . Today also .. tried calling bgss but to no avail ..

How much u owe them? How many days u late? What happened when they reached your house? Have u tried to negotiate?
 

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updates.

i fork out $790 to repay the AL because money 'donated' to garment cannot take back. my AL accepted the $790 back but now ask me help him work, help me transfer money wor. hahaha, anybody want help them transfer not? HAHAHAHAHAHA.
 

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Why did you even bother to pay at all?

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i fork out $790 to repay the AL because money 'donated' to garment cannot take back. my AL accepted the $790 back but now ask me help him work, help me transfer money wor. hahaha, anybody want help them transfer not? HAHAHAHAHAHA.
 
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