Hey
@gravylux , very sorry to hear about your situation. First of all, always try to stay positive.
OK don't worry. I suggest u to copy-paste your situation in the link below. Start a similar thread here too:
Reason is because there would be more people there who would be able to help u and give u advice there. Because previously there was such cases similar like yours, so alot of peeps in the link above went to help out and give advise. So I would suggest u to start a thread in the link above or copy paste your situation over the link above. Hope u can get good and genuine advice from the peeps there! Stay strong