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Lchlch

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Anyone ever felt more drained after sharing your issues with someone? And realised wah to find a good person to speak to is hard?

Now I know why so many people feel down and closed off caz sometimes don't share also better than share. The more you try to connect with people the more you realised not everyone have the best interest of you (unintentionally maybe?) End up making you feel worse.

I enjoy speaking to people to help me clear my thoughts and hear more opinions but I realised some people just cannot connect and will made you feel worse than before.

Ended up making you feel why the fk did I even bother sharing and trying, sua la talk to wall also better.

Lip lai share ur experience if any. Or just tcss for some good laugh.
try to mix with those have a good positive energy and stay away from those negative people.
Can drain your energy away fast and become moody.
 

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TS want to talk to someone to offload your own problems then upset when they don't entertain u?

Don't be so fking cheapskate lah.

If u want to do that, go pay to see a counsellor.
 

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sinkie must pwn sinkie u know...
bro, this is true.
I was in this new company and already seem few are like that.
especially dinosaur colleague, very very negative people.
 

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best is to confide problems with your parents.
the only people that will listen to you and will be with you throughout their entire life.
 

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Anyone ever felt more drained after sharing your issues with someone? And realised wah to find a good person to speak to is hard?

Now I know why so many people feel down and closed off caz sometimes don't share also better than share. The more you try to connect with people the more you realised not everyone have the best interest of you (unintentionally maybe?) End up making you feel worse.

I enjoy speaking to people to help me clear my thoughts and hear more opinions but I realised some people just cannot connect and will made you feel worse than before.

Ended up making you feel why the fk did I even bother sharing and trying, sua la talk to wall also better.

Lip lai share ur experience if any. Or just tcss for some good laugh.
Why you only want people to hear your problems si boh?

:rolleyes:
 

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everywhere (companies) will surely have toxic colleagues.
pawn one another out.
What is local and local?
pawn and pawn.
 

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Perhaps can try to engage yourself in some activities or interests to expend your energy and release out all the negativities?
 

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Almost everyone socialise for their own self interest, if you tell them something, most are just in it for the juicy part and not so into the emotional exchange. I don't like to share private thoughts with people, just for their entertainment.
 

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When you speak up your thoughts be ready of responses from both ends of the spectrum. You have the rights to speak your mind, so do others having the same amount of rights to response according to their opinion.
If you are only ready to hear from one end of the spectrum, better keep the thoughts to yourself.
 
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