- Jul 29, 2018
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I agree so much with the last sentence..Marriage was the biggest mistake of my life,
Unless you use it to pay less taxes and/or any benefits unrelated to a relationship (to add value to both) then avoid it or do a proper prenup to ease out divorce.
A relationship / companionship / partnership does not need an outdated legal document (marriage is so last millennial) to make it work.
In most of the cases it will only make you unhappier , brings you unnecessary burden of assumed responsibility.
You can still live a wonderful fulfilling life without marrying , do a ceremony if you like the party part of it and share the love with friends and family but dont tie yourself into legal binding medieval ****.
(context: mid 30s westerner, selfmade highly successful expat in singapore, wanted to share my happiness with a partner and thought marrying would prove my good intentions. I am into giving and not taking advantage of marriage, still it totally destroyed my life... please don't repeat my error. I didn't chose the wrong partner, marriage turned the right partner into a living nightmare)
Focus on yourself, give more than expect to receive , never stop learning and have fun surrounded by people you love. People come and go , legally binding documents will **** you up. Remember that when people have nothing to lose they'll turn into beasts.
When people have nothing or should I add, everything to lose, they turn into beast.