Sad dating story

saiyan2005

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U r living in self denial.

I used to be like u.

Now I think it’s mostly the female’s issues. Most sinkie charbors character suck, get this in your head.

The sooner u register this in your head, the less pain n trouble u get yourself into
Not only sinkie, some China girls also
 

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If met only 1 time then suah la..go find another target better, don't waste your time.
 

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I did consider if I am dating out of my league. She’s a doctor but I am not. Coz I am slightly older than her, I am earning roughly same as her. But overtime, the wage disparity would be greater when she specialises.

I have already worked very hard to my best abilities. But after doing the maths, it’s seems that she can easily fall into the top 20% income earner in a couple of year, while I have a glass ceiling that maybe make me at top 40% income earner.

she did tell me that she wants a really successful husband. But I am not someone who can fulfil her idea of successful.

I did consider all these before la. But also do not want to live a life of regrets that I did not get out of my comfort zone and dated someone out of my league.

while I have no regrets in asking her out, one of my biggest regrets now is not studying hard enough to be a doctor. Although now got programs such as 2nd degree for doctor, the odds to be one is Low and it costs a lot in terms of study cost and cost of not working.

it is within my ability to date others from other professions other than medicine. But right now, I have this feeling of sadness and feels kinda depressed like life has no meaning if I settle for something that I can do better with.
Were you upfront you were not up to her standard before the meeting? Do you look like your picture? Hard to imagine someone taking such drastic measures unless you put them off a lot. Can just give some politically correct excuses like not compatible or no chemistry.

ACtually now 10/10 girls look at material now.... cannot blame.... is the society fault ....

If raybe bf is driving proton sala u think she will run into the fire and save him ?
Raybe's instinct is good. She didn't have the time to think and her first thought was to save people.

If she was thinking and was materialistic, would she have run into the fire? Survive also likely disfigured and get health issues. Find another rich guy better.
 

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Not only sinkie, some China girls also
It’s a East Asian charbor kind of thingy

They are mostly into amdk or rich handsome guys

Ok I don’t want to turn this into a bashing thread so I’ll just stop here

But hope ts can just wake up n know what’s going on n stop doubting himself
 

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It’s a East Asian charbor kind of thingy

They are mostly into amdk or rich handsome guys

Ok I don’t want to turn this into a bashing thread so I’ll just stop here

But hope ts can just wake up n know what’s going on n stop doubting himself
So how many Sinkie women or East Asian women have you dated to quantify your claim?
 

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Posted my dating exp in one of the threads to share my exp, but here it goes..

past 3 weeks, we chatted and chatted on WhatsApp. Also followed each other ig.

we went out for one date, and after that she never replied me already.

less than a week later, she removed me from her ig followers but still followed me.

she also seem to remove some of her ig posts.

1) am I the issue?
2) did she find herself not ready for this?

feel free to ask me more follow up qns :(

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Glad you finally move on 🥶
 

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6?

Certain things don’t need to experience 100 times to know it sucks

Btw I said most sinkie females, I didn’t say all.

Don't know the length or circumstance of your relationships, so no comments.

But quite unfortunate that you met those you deem to be of poor character, resulting in today's generalisation.

I have the most wonderful experiences with Singaporean ladies and most ladies in general :o
 

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Don't know the length or circumstance of your relationships, so no comments.

But quite unfortunate that you met those you deem to be of poor character, resulting in today's generalisation.

I have the most wonderful experiences with Singaporean ladies and most ladies in general :o
must be jin yandao :o
 

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Don't know the length or circumstance of your relationships, so no comments.

But quite unfortunate that you met those you deem to be of poor character, resulting in today's generalisation.

I have the most wonderful experiences with Singaporean ladies and most ladies in general :o
moi ish thinks that its important to have a good mindset towards others when meeting them.. if before meet alr feel like girls are materialistic and whatnot is jin cham :frown: maybe thats why summersky kor kor seems to be in bliss in terms of rs :o
 
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TS your ig feed or story interesting is it? Or relatively rich? Maybe that’s why she continues to follow you
And removed you so you can’t stalk her
(But your feed interesting so she still want to continue see)
 

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Manage your expectations ba, don't expect too much of the other party or from each meet up, otherwise it just leads to disappointment
 

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Don’t be stupid. Man the f up. You think you’re the only guy chasing her? She’s choosing, gave you a chance and you either blew it or she’s just not into you. Move on and stop whining like a lil bitch, which is not surprising why she didn’t choose you tbh
 

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Don’t be stupid. Man the f up. You think you’re the only guy chasing her? She’s choosing, gave you a chance and you either blew it or she’s just not into you. Move on and stop whining like a lil bitch, which is not surprising why she didn’t choose you tbh
That's some honest brutal truth there.
 
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