The Independent SG - ‘He doesn’t pay when we’re out on a date!’ — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: ‘What’s one thing that makes you los

[Kia7200]

Some people say, the above average man is just an average woman....


Most of the reasons are valid what. You mean a guy will enjoy dating a gal who is rude, disrespectful, narcissistic, egoistic, stingy and calculative?

I show u an example

A guy ask a sg female out for dinner

Sg female ordered few of the most expensive food in the menu, during the dinner she only reply him a short answers. Focus on taking photos of the food n restaurant alone, posting it on Instagram.
During the conservation, her hp screen is on silent n screen facing down. She talk about me me me, how independent she is n how a man should treat a female

Would u pay for the date?

Dont treat guys like some atm. No one like to be treated like a sucker, we r humans n we have feelings too

No normal human will run ard telling ppl she is independent n still got the cheek to ask ppl pay for the bills. This is totally shameless n delusional.

Imagine a guy telling this, oh im independent cause i got a job n i pay my own bills. I think u will treat him like a patient from imh

 

[yperic]

what is AMDK is the person.

the girls will reply, i treat you, can i go ur home, anything for u

No need Ang Mo you just need to be well-educated Ah Bengs that can speak good English".

https://www.8days.sg/entertainment/...l0GD8CFxswA1m3593P_aem_2otAWRE5LTeTd6meX4rDww

 

[A Better Tomorrow]

Moi level up riao. Asking for PAYNOW is the modern way of asking your mobile number

 

[Airplane88]

so basically, they just want to find a sugadaddy that will give them money, and treat them like a princess la.

Not like that say. At least that guy pays his part of expenditure.

 

[lifeisinforashock]

Pay but no open.

 

[Airplane88]

I am of the mind that everyone has every right to set their own expectations. However, to voice it out loud publicly and so negatively tells a lot about their upbringing..

Another point to note is that these people were all interviewed at a club. Again, this is quite telling of the profile of these ladies.

Are they even the type of women EDMWERs are likely to date?

Of course la. Ladies in such places are more out spoken. Ar bo interview ladies teachers in school?

 

[Airplane88]

I think most men don’t mind to pay but nobody enjoys being the carrot head, so if someone treat u,
First u follow their budget and preferences;
Be respectful of their time as much as your own.
Since both r friends or strangers, reciprocity’s key.

Unless we r talking about girl come from some mountain n never earned own income otherwise if people offer to blanja you you ought to offer to blanja them back na.

No matter how boring the convo is I will try to offer back to the one who blanja. Fair is fair: my opinion. I only run away if the human behaves siaolang or was rude.

Yea, some girls would want to split the bill.

 

[wwenze]

After a few times, SG men avoid SG women altogether

The ones losing out will be honest SG women

So honest SG women should voice up against dishonest women.

But there isn't any voice.

Why?

 

[lifeisinforashock]

After a few times, SG men avoid SG women altogether

The ones losing out will be honest SG women

So honest SG women should voice up against dishonest women.

But there isn't any voice.

Why?

They can continue to yoga for all they want.

 

[Encouragesome1]

Yea, some girls would want to split the bill.

Usually no need to split , if we treat the other human our friend or potential friend we treat also we don’t mind

 

[Hakuna Matata]

If a guy asks a gal out, he pays.
If he doesn't, the gal pay.

 

[Encouragesome1]

After a few times, SG men avoid SG women altogether

The ones losing out will be honest SG women

So honest SG women should voice up against dishonest women.

But there isn't any voice.

Why?

We also face such people we just quietly avoid them ba, why want to put flags and highlight them?

 

[TrollAndOgres]

I show u an example

A guy ask a sg female out for dinner

Sg female ordered few of the most expensive food in the menu, during the dinner she only reply him a short answers. Focus on taking photos of the food n restaurant alone, posting it on Instagram.
During the conservation, her hp screen is on silent n screen facing down. She talk about me me me, how independent she is n how a man should treat a female

Would u pay for the date?

Dont treat guys like some atm. No one like to be treated like a sucker, we r humans n we have feelings too

No normal human will run ard telling ppl she is independent n still got the cheek to ask ppl pay for the bills. This is totally shameless n delusional.

Imagine a guy telling this, oh im independent cause i got a job n i pay my own bills. I think u will treat him like a patient from imh

Of course not, in this case la.

Im saying normal date where both parties chat and eat properly. If u choose a high maintenance pretty vase who turns out to be bloodsucket, then idk it really depends how you chose her to date in the first place? If someone want chio, slim, well groomed, nice hair skin nails makeup, all these don't come cheap also.

For eg, when i went for dates, i didn't even wear make-up. Sometimes just a going out top and shorts. Like that will kena judged for being nuah? Anyway personally i always chose cheap places so that i can definitely pay my share or even for both of us.

 

[chong18]

I show u an example

A guy ask a sg female out for dinner

Sg female ordered few of the most expensive food in the menu, during the dinner she only reply him a short answers. Focus on taking photos of the food n restaurant alone, posting it on Instagram.
During the conservation, her hp screen is on silent n screen facing down. She talk about me me me, how independent she is n how a man should treat a female

Would u pay for the date?

Dont treat guys like some atm. No one like to be treated like a sucker, we r humans n we have feelings too

No normal human will run ard telling ppl she is independent n still got the cheek to ask ppl pay for the bills. This is totally shameless n delusional.

Imagine a guy telling this, oh im independent cause i got a job n i pay my own bills. I think u will treat him like a patient from imh

This example is out of your wild imagination only right? In real life where got so kuazhang. Never heard of men kena this type of date, unless you very suay. This type is certainly outlier.

 

[Kia7200]

This example is out of your wild imagination only right? In real life where got so kuazhang. Never heard of men kena this type of date, unless you very suay. This type is certainly outlier.

Im giving an extreme example. Guys also will observe that girl during date (except for simps n white knights)

Sg female will friendzone guys, we will also fkzone sg girls if what she can offer is nothing but sxx

 

[Kia7200]

Of course not, in this case la.

Im saying normal date where both parties chat and eat properly. If u choose a high maintenance pretty vase who turns out to be bloodsucket, then idk it really depends how you chose her to date in the first place? If someone want chio, slim, well groomed, nice hair skin nails makeup, all these don't come cheap also.

For eg, when i went for dates, i didn't even wear make-up. Sometimes just a going out top and shorts. Like that will kena judged for being nuah? Anyway personally i always chose cheap places so that i can definitely pay my share or even for both of us.

U think ugly and fat sg female r humble n down to earth
Pretty sg female u materialistic n princess attitude?

It take discipline, knowledge and positive mindset to look slim, radient and pretty.
And usually those fat ugly sg female have the worst character plus mental problems

I just giving an extreme example. Guys are mentally prepared to pay for dates, those tulan complained because they feel its not worth treating that crazy female.

 

[Heriophant]

I show u an example

A guy ask a sg female out for dinner

Sg female ordered few of the most expensive food in the menu, during the dinner she only reply him a short answers. Focus on taking photos of the food n restaurant alone, posting it on Instagram.
During the conservation, her hp screen is on silent n screen facing down. She talk about me me me, how independent she is n how a man should treat a female

Would u pay for the date?

Dont treat guys like some atm. No one like to be treated like a sucker, we r humans n we have feelings too

No normal human will run ard telling ppl she is independent n still got the cheek to ask ppl pay for the bills. This is totally shameless n delusional.

Imagine a guy telling this, oh im independent cause i got a job n i pay my own bills. I think u will treat him like a patient from imh

How coms guy taking girl to restaurant on first dates?

 

[Oldnerd79]

Im giving an extreme example. Guys also will observe that girl during date (except for simps n white knights)

Sg female will friendzone guys, we will also fkzone sg girls if what she can offer is nothing but sxx

Dude you are going too far liao, demonizing women for friendzoning you? Why so petty

 

[Kia7200]

Dude you are going too far liao, demonizing women for friendzoning you? Why so petty

Nice try. Typical low level tricks to get validation from sg female

 

[Encouragesome1]

Dude you are going too far liao, demonizing women for friendzoning you? Why so petty

It’s ok de
It’s edmw here. Everyone who friendzone us we unfriend them for 1-3 months then ok already ba , we not small gas one