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Alot alot, but think retail, F&B and nail & hair saloon or foot massage most common to see them. Some married locals do business open shop also.

Nowadays seems like VN girls in local are as much as those from CN. Difference is VN mostly are women here. CN alot are men. Just local neighbourhood alone, impression hear VN accent more than CN one.

sg now 乌烟瘴气 coz of these ppl
 

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Think nobody can be exactly sure one bah. It takes a little bit leap of faith for couple to come together move forward. Many even among their own family also have differences and conflicts liao. Don't say two strangers come together.

That's why think its important to do the fact finding when go there visit. Check the background and habit of sort bah.

Still, quite surprised with VN now more affluent still got many of them want to marry out marry foreigners.

My stand is that consistency matters. Some of these foreigners can stage things up unlike local couples who visit each other’s place to know family and build relationships.

Overseas wise, it is a different ball game. She is likely to seek monetary compensation when you cannot get leave to visit her home town or expects you to eat whatever they have on the table or offer which might shock you because of the living standards differences.

They are more well versed than an average Joe here when it comes to the benefits of divorce and going back to the same lifestyle they once had which a man will not even know.
The only difference is that this time she is financially well off from the short term marriage, with or without kids.
 

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Alot alot, but think retail, F&B and nail & hair saloon or foot massage most common to see them. Some married locals do business open shop also.

Nowadays seems like VN girls in local are as much as those from CN. Difference is VN mostly are women here. CN alot are men. Just local neighbourhood alone, impression hear VN accent more than CN one.
I guess is because China has risen in avg family income, so they don't really want to come anymore, so industries have a shortage of ppl again, so they just allow Asean ppl to come in. This is why everywhere you see and hear Myanmar and Vietnam people. You listen to their language you know they are either Myanmar or Vietnam. Mostly in my industries like automation, equipment and mechanical fields.
 

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Marry a partner that at least got job and working is fine. If lazy and don’t want work = no money, better siam far far to this kind of person if you don’t want your future children to suffer.
How a person makes a decent living, speaks aloud what kind of person he/she is.

Try to convince a con man not to cheat when he/she has been in the trade for so long that working in decent jobs is difficult because their decent job professional certs are bought and their skill sets are well below par that complaints and lawsuits are common.
 

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Edmw warp logic again…money money money

but can quote loser odd job ah beng having many chiobu gf

Have seen convicts in/ out prison .. also many gf

or debt laden guy no car no job but many gf

how come ah
 

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Edmw warp logic again…money money money

but can quote loser odd job ah beng having many chiobu gf

Have seen convicts in/ out prison .. also many gf

or debt laden guy no car no job but many gf

how come ah
Being a Singaporean is a privilege. And it is highly coveted by people who are highly to make a living and send money back.
It might come to a point where they also make use of the social policies to enrich themselves and to the people who matters
 

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Edmw warp logic again…money money money

but can quote loser odd job ah beng having many chiobu gf

Have seen convicts in/ out prison .. also many gf

or debt laden guy no car no job but many gf

how come ah
Gf = liability ah beng dunno yet!
 

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Alot alot, but think retail, F&B and nail & hair saloon or foot massage most common to see them. Some married locals do business open shop also.

Nowadays seems like VN girls in local are as much as those from CN. Difference is VN mostly are women here. CN alot are men. Just local neighbourhood alone, impression hear VN accent more than CN one.
yes nail and hair saloon coming in
even cross border

Vietnamese
 

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Nowadays so many VN girls in local, working in normal job such as retail or open saloon, etc. Turn left or right also can heard them speak VN language or VN accented Chinese. Think at least they are settled somewhat into local life and work already, stable income. As compare to some stranger back in VN who might need 'sponsor'. :s22:
Same vn culture is man must pay for everything
 

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Troublesome...have to be careful with your bank accounts! Most foreign brides are good in acting, I don't say all but mostly..get one who is educated not just a bimbo and most stay in provinces!
 

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Must make sure they never do freelance before or at least they only do it because no choice and not for material purposes.

If SG gotch Thai matchmaker I donch mind nia
 

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Not sure now how much changes, but think last time their society is more matriarchal in the home front. Cause their men always not around, go war and other. Thus the women have to hold fort. Therefore impression then, their men alot tend have lower social status at home one. They tend are more aggressive relationship wise compare to men.
Machiam Nonyas
 

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20k per month one year only 240k got specialist Dr who make 6 figures in one month that is more likely to retire in SG!
Yuan lai EDMWers r actually paupers.
iu
 

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I guess is because China has risen in avg family income, so they don't really want to come anymore, so industries have a shortage of ppl again, so they just allow Asean ppl to come in. This is why everywhere you see and hear Myanmar and Vietnam people. You listen to their language you know they are either Myanmar or Vietnam. Mostly in my industries like automation, equipment and mechanical fields.
Think CN still have but more are affluent and educated nowadays thus alot more do higher end jobs maybe. Retail, F&B, small businesses and saloon tend are VN women more. MM impression more are the men in technical position perhaps. Unless its helper then women.
 
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