BigToteBag
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In 30s, considering. I see my friends all like no sleep, no life. Parents, what makes it worth it? Any money/life stage things to take note
Is this a business transaction??????
In 30s, considering. I see my friends all like no sleep, no life. Parents, what makes it worth it? Any money/life stage things to take note
In 30s, considering. I see my friends all like no sleep, no life. Parents, what makes it worth it? Any money/life stage things to take note
yeah agree with Yukita but also depends on individuals. Some ppl prefer to live without kids as they find the "sacrifices" too much for these joyswhen you calculate in $ definitely not worth it. if you adding on the time and effort, its just even worse and it does not make any sense to have kids. but then, there is something else that make it worth when you see your kids smile, laughing and growing up, something that even money will not be able to buy (and all this partly due to the suffering only then you can enjoy the joy).
Why would ppl with no kids want to understand ppl with kids - those joy points and pain points...there is no need for either side of the boat to understandlife experience..ppl with kids will tok abt tis n abt tat..but those without kids will nv understand
True to this!! Everyone have their own life to live out....if you think having kids is not your cup of tea...then don’t do it...most importantly, you and your partner have the same outlook and direction in life.Ask those who are born with mental & physical disabilties and cannot sustain themselves, those who had multiple miscarriages, those who gave birth to one only that nearly cost her life off - why still want kids?
I can only say if you are uncomfortable or un-shareable to give family love, do not give birth. Just work,sing,cook, travel and do whatever you want forever, just be happy. Other folks will just be happy for what you are as long as you do not harm others. I have many single colleagues and ex-classmates, siblings who are enjoying life whole-heartedly