Can someone advise on this as i am honestly stuck at the crossroads
I might be able to chip in for the actuarial side in Singapore although it might be outdated (gave up my actuarial career more than 9 years ago).
Working hours/stress - Assuming that you are doing proper actuarial work (in general or life insurance), the hours generally are relatively good (much better than law) but with the occasional busy periods.
After you finish your degree, you will have to take quite a few more exams to get your fellowship, so expect a lot of personal study. However, do expect to be given study leave and a slight pay increase with each exam passed (my time it was around 200 for a basic level paper and 300+ for an advanced level paper). This only applies to proper actuarial roles (you can forget about getting these benefits in a bank in general).
Salary - My friend once commented that Actuarial is one of the best 'back office' job for a fresh grad. As mentioned above, should you be able to pass all your exams quickly, your salary will go up quickly. A fellow with a few years experience normally makes over 100k per annum.
That said in the long run, the earnings potential caps and only a handful will reach the top make the super big bucks. It will come to a point that the only way to go up is for the top guy to retire or step down. On the other hand, good lawyers, accountants and bankers will be able to make much more when they hit partner or senior levels (and there are more opportunities).
Employability - Can only comment for Singapore. Back in 2007 when I first started out as an intern, there was a lack of local actuarial grads. Most actuarial departments consisted of people from all around the region.
Now there is a major oversupply thanks to the local universities creating actuarial courses (used to be NTU only). There are only a certain amount of roles in Singapore (the industry only needs so many people) hence only those with excellent grades or 'connections' will normally land any role which turns up.
The reason for requiring excellent grades is very simple. Ultimately, the employer wants to hire someone who they know will be able to pass all the exams and get their fellow status (only fellows were allowed to sign off stuff). I have seen many associates who try and fail and leave the industry entirely cause that is the bare minimum to advance to more senior positions.
The actuarial exams are very difficult. There is a minimum pass mark as well as a bell curve (meaning even if u passed the paper if you are not in the top 20-30% you still fail).
Transferability of skills - Traditional actuarial work is very specialised. Once you get into it for too long, it is very hard to move to other non-actuarial roles (like finance). That said, I have seen many move successfully to finance roles like risk management although it comes with a pay cut or starting from the near bottom again.
Demand in 2021 - I am not sure. But I doubt there would be many more vacancies. As mentioned above, every insurance firm only needs so many Actuaries.
Conclusion:
My advice for you would be to study law or something else which interests you. Do note that you do not need to do actuarial science to be an actuary. You can take the examinations as a private candidate (an actuarial bachelors only give exemptions to most of the basic level papers).
So if you are still keen, then you should consider doing a few actuarial papers as a private candidate to see if it is your cup of tea.