Why every job that I work , I was still being look down on others !!!

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Why I always get looked down by others !!!

What job do I need to work in order not to look down by others !!!

Regardless of what type of jobs, some people will still look down on others. It is the human nature & works like a cycle - Person A looked down on u bcoz u r less successful than him. Then, another person will also looked down on him bcoz he is less successful than him & this goes on.

Just accept the reality & u don't live for others. U can't pleased everyone in this world & really need to live for ur ownself. I know it is easier to say than done but u just have to change ur mindset towards what is happening around u then u will feel better & happier.

Take it easy, worry less & be happy. :)
 

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ts i look up to you , dont bully me

:(

I love you and I thank you...

You are a nice guy... I respect you alot actually

I will always remember it in my heart ..


I am those kind of people ,

When people are nice to me , I will respect and be nicer to them x2


When people are bad to me , I will be badder to them ... I hope there is no death sentence in this world for killing others ,
 

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Sometime I hate myself ,I hate my father , I hate mother I hate my family and I hate my relative !!!


Why all of them have to be gangster laopuey Lang /headman or many different gang LOGO !!!

Is a joke !!! They all from various different Gang !!! Although all of them have since quit/resigned 20 years old ...




Why I have to grow up in this violence /vulgar /fighting environment....///

Defull stop asking me which gang I am from !!! I don't want to be involved in gang anymore ... I don't want to be associate with gang ... I hate my past !!!


Why can't I be Lee family!!! Why is it that my family and relative all not business man !!! Why I last time don't want study !!! Why I last time always skip school , why I last time always too suspense from school !!! Why last time I play gang !!!! If only I can think ... I will not be in this state

FX my life!!!

good that you had put the gang life behind

stay positive and no one can look down on you
except yourself
 

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good that you had put the gang life behind

stay positive and no one can look down on you
except yourself

Actually I have put down long time ago !!!
I never involve in gang since 2010


In Singapore , if no qualifications no certificate , mean die already..cannot survive ..

Can only work those job I mentioned....

I only secondary N level cert
 
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Work like me a rope access technician. I'm working at heights suspended outside building on ropes. I'm always looking down on people.
 

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I lose my job working as retail assistant , I encounter many type of people . Some are cocky ,some are arrogant , some treat you as slave and maid.. some treat you as low caste ... I lose my cool and shouting at them
When I am caught in such situation, I will still "thank them" for giving me a rare chance to serve them & in my mind will be thinking this...

Thank u for showing me ur disgusting behaviour, I will be a better person. I know how the other party will feel if I were to behave like u.

U can't control what is happening around u but u can control ur mindset & behaviour. :)
 

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Actually I have put down long time ago !!!
I never involve in gang since 2010

don't go back

gang life ?
I had seen it all since very young as
grew up in Boon Tat Street x Stanley Street in the 60' through to the 80'

you are still young
respect yourself and people will respect you
 

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When I am caught in such situation, I still "thank them" for giving me a rare chance & in my mind will be thinking this...

Thank u for showing me ur disgusting behaviour, I will be a better person. I know how the other party will feel if I were to behave like u.

U can't control what is happening around u but u can control ur mindset & behaviour. :)

I admit I got anger management issue...

Imh diagnosed me with anger management...

I can't control my temper ...

The doctor give me a green colour letter
 

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don't go back

gang life ?
I had seen it all since very young as
grew up in Boon Tat Street x Stanley Street in the 60' through to the 80'

you are still young
respect yourself and people will respect you


Thank you so much for your kind advice...

I will remember it in my heart..

I appreciate and I would like to say thank you very much...


Thank

I don't know how to say mushy word ...but I am grateful .

I appreciate it ..
You have my respect..

My principle is

When people are kind and nice to me , I will treat them ever better
 
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TS probably just need confident. Yo don’t have control on people’s opinion on you. But you can choose to ignore and live happily.
 

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Thank you so much for your kind advice...

I will remember it in my heart..

I appreciate and I would like to say thank you very much...


Thank

I don't know how to say mushy word ...but I am grateful .

I appreciate it ..


When people treat me nice , I will treat them better x2

When people treat me badly , they will only wish they do not know who am I !

need help
drop me a PM

to my best of ability and within my consience
 

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I love you and I thank you...

You are a nice guy... I respect you alot actually

I will always remember it in my heart ..


I am those kind of people ,

When people are nice to me , I will respect and be nicer to them x2


When people are bad to me , I will be badder to them ... I hope there is no death sentence in this world for killing others ,

in lims kopis threads :(
 

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in lims kopis threads :(

Lim kopi for ???


I only hope there is no death sentence for murdering someone ???

What wrong with that ?

Don't anything lim kopi lah...

Don't come and scared me...

I ain't scare

Please Call police and lodge a police report right now and see who get arrested okay !!!
 
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Sometime I hate myself ,I hate my father , I hate mother I hate my family and I hate my relative !!!

Why I have to grow up in this violence /vulgar /fighting environment..../// I hate my past !!!

Why can't I be Lee family!!! Why is it that my family and relative all not business man !!! Why I last time don't want study !!! Why I last time always skip school , why I last time always too suspense from school !!! Why last time I play gang !!!! If only I can think ... I will not be in this state

FX my life!!!

Something happened for a reason. U will only get to realise it after sometime like few years or decades down the road. For e.g., few years down the road, u r married & have a kid. U do know the importances of a happy environment so u will try to educate him to be happy & give the best u can.

No matter positive or negative things happened, just be grateful - Positive things, be grateful & enjoy it while it lasts. Negative things, just accept it as a challenge & treat it as a life lesson. :)
 
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