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i dunno abt the top part haha :s22:
but yeah so aligned for the latter statement

im super fearful n detest any mentioning of marriage anymore. merry no marry also moi motto 😂
however how i gotten so badly hurt in the first place was becos of my innate deposition of placing so much, if not all the importance on this. so if i follow this motto i will never fulfil this “higher purpose” ever.

ironic. i have no answer to this yet. as of now stick to strictly NOOOOOO marry ever again lol

maybe this isn’t your case cos u nv been thru marriage

u have any other enlightenment to share?
No enlightenment. Birdy just muddle along everyday. Birdy try to learn to muddle betterer.

I think peaceheart is right that oneitis people are faithful. Seems to be a spectrum of oneitis to merry not marry(manyitis) to noitis. The super oneitis cannot live without the one, or think they cannot, so some commit suicide etc.
Some go to manyitis after they get hurt. Then they might go back to oneitis when they meet someone who fulfills their requirements.
After getting hurt too many times or they see no point then maybe go to noitis, where they don't even want to be in relationship. Then become monk.
But most people enjoy sex so they masturbate and don't bother with relationships with other people. Let's call this ownselfitis.

BTW google seach shows no results for manyitis, noitis and ownselfitis. Birdy invented them here. Maybe one day PPC become cited in dating research papers :LOL:
 

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