Im not actively tracking but off top of my head from highest to lowest.
Allowances for parents- 20% of my take home from from my day job and property agent side (varies because property agent gig is like that one)
Household expenses for both Sinkieland and Malaysia house (utilities, tax, groceries, zhapalang,)- 4k/month like that earlier in 2023 when I attempted to try and keep track.
Kids not so much because they are grown. But I give currently 400$ per month each (if they want to go out with friends need more will tell me and I give) so ->800$ per month
Food cost for me- daily at least 100$, 150$ at the highest point. Average to 3.5k/ month bah
Toy collection- 1k to 2k/ month
Other hobbies (lawn work, 3d printing, gym)- less than 1k
Social cost like drinking, entertaining friend- conservatively a bit less than 1k/ month.
For charity wise.
I don't donate to any charitable org in Sinkapore. But I donate 800usd monthly (my overseas account) to an animal shelter in the states called "hope for paws". So around 1k/ month.
I am also giving money directly to some people I know who are going through a hard time. That varies too.