Are you happy being alone ???

[popdod]

only feel sad when seeing couples outside. Otherwise, it is ok

i only fweel sad when. I cannot share food

 

[Nevereatrice]

Im focus on my goal. to me Having a company is along the way and not being a try hard. That's why I'm happy. Why

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

“If you want to go fast, go alone,
If you want to go far, go together”

But many here don't understand this logic.

 

[dontwastetime]

But many here don't understand this logic.

can but sometimes the other party is the one that pull u down.

and those that can pull u forward, kanna snapped up already or too picky

 

[Woof24]

I very 患得患失 person

Not suitable for r/s. Destined to go thru this life alone

 

[mgx-alander]

But many here don't understand this logic.

cannot find the person willing to walk with bbfa

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

cannot find the person willing to walk with bbfa

I honestly don't believe cannot find this theory. Is whether want or don't want only.

 

[mgx-alander]

bbfa also have standards, no feeling force to anyhow choose oso no use

没有爱的婚姻，就像两个室友

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

can but sometimes the other party is the one that pull u down.

and those that can pull u forward, kanna snapped up already or too picky

Yes 不奢望有神队友，但是绝地不可以有猪队友。

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

I very 患得患失 person

Not suitable for r/s. Destined to go thru this life alone

Find someone compatible but less chemistry it will help you curb your 患得患失

 

[inf|uencer]

Last time can make more friends lol now more solo lol

 

[popdod]

But many here don't understand this logic.

Coz Edmwers want Lust
not love

 

[hokeylim]

“If you want to go fast, go alone,
If you want to go far, go together”

Not true. Sometimes, going together means double or triple the load, the burdens, the challenge.

 

[dontwastetime]

cannot find the person willing to walk with bbfa

Even Dino bu also dun wan bbfa

Need to get foreigner

 

[Shion]

dear all

welcome to my thread

 

[mikhail_k]

no but i am content. if i force it with the expectation to start a family unit, probably can get easily as a late 20s adult with good income and education, will find someone in similar age bracket who wants the same thing. problem is that is not the life i want to lead

 

[mikhail_k]

Even Dino bu also dun wan bbfa

Need to get foreigner

dinobu actually have high expectations, easier to jio as gf, but to sustain her is similar effort as normal bu. u tink she bui she wont want go concert, go gaigai, take nice picture and buy nonsense stuff meh?
foreigner will pick bbfa cuz bobian sometimes, but bbfa may not be able to lun them also given their general significantly lower education level

 

[Decorum]

dinobu actually have high expectations, easier to jio as gf, but to sustain her is similar effort as normal bu. u tink she bui she wont want go concert, go gaigai, take nice picture and buy nonsense stuff meh?
foreigner will pick bbfa cuz bobian sometimes, but bbfa may not be able to lun them also given their general significantly lower education level

Exactly. There can be dinobu with worse attitude than chiobu

i have seen it for myself

4/10 but attitude 4x worse than those 10/10.

maybe they past life is chiobu but behave like bad person so become cuibu this life

 

[randyap]

Humans are social creature, no matter what you need some form of socializing. If you confine yourself, it is very depressing. Else, why all the BBFAs come edmw?

 

[tinklebell99]

Not true. Sometimes, going together means double or triple the load, the burdens, the challenge.

The trend is the women outlive their husbands even if they may be older than their husbands. They become caregivers and then end up alone in later years.

If this is going to be the outcome, might as well not get involved and learn to be independant. The experience of love is not a big deal. Most people feel burdened by it and regret it.