[GLGT] Couple first met when man was 21, and girl was 13.

[chaiscool]

Cannot beat this one

How to have right or wrong ? Grooming or in love ? Underage never do anything wrong, legal age time do something right

Ppl huan lou wu aey bo aey instead of own life. If so free think of how to make your life better lah .

i wont see it as grooming la... people usually only fk the people they groom, not marry them. 8 years gap still ok. i see many with 10+ years gap

we judge others by they actions and ourselfs with our intentions…..

only they knows got grooming or not…..

but who are we to judging?

I don't think you all understand what grooming is lol. It's not simply age gap, ppl don't care if 80 year old marry 40 year old.

Problem with this is that they met when she was 13 and he waited "groom" her to be a couple at 18. This is classic grooming, adults exploiting kids. There is right and wrong to be judged on this, simply due to her being a 13 year old kid.

Groomers do marry them, see celine dion case too(12 year old and 38 year old)

 

[glarerder]

I don't think you all understand what grooming is lol. It's not simply age gap, ppl don't care if 80 year old marry 40 year old.

Problem with this is that they met when she was 13 and he waited "groom" her to be a couple at 18. This is classic grooming, adults exploiting kids. There is right and wrong to be judged on this, simply due to her being a 13 year old kid.

Groomers do marry them, see celine dion case too(12 year old and 38 year old)

You don't even know the content of their conversation and yet you classify their relationship as grooming solely by their age gap while saying it's not simply age gap? You're contradicting yourself. Perhaps have some proof that he's indeed grooming her first. Else it's just your biased perspective.

 

[UptheToon]

what kind of freidnship can a 21 year old man and 13 year school girl have? so wrong...

 

[chaiscool]

You don't even know the content of their conversation and yet you classify their relationship as grooming solely by their age gap while saying it's not simply age gap? You're contradicting yourself. Perhaps have some proof that he's indeed grooming her first. Else it's just your biased perspective.

Do you not read properly? It's not age gap when it's adult, not when it involves kids.

Moi already say if 40 year old and 80 year old is not a problem cuz they're adults. 13 year old and adult is a problem cuz she is a kid. Adult and adult is not grooming.

Simi bias perspective? It's really disturbing to moi that ppl like you and in thread are ok with this. Adults shouldn't be exploiting kids lah, no discussion at all on this.

 

[fantasyland]

18yo she an adult she can fk or marry anyone she wants even 60yo ah pek also can.

 

[glarerder]

Do you not read properly? It's not age gap when it's adult, not when it involves kids.

Moi already say if 40 year old and 80 year old is not a problem cuz they're adults. 13 year old and adult is a problem cuz she is a kid.

Simi bias perspective? It's really disturbing to moi that ppl like you and in thread are ok with this. Adults shouldn't be exploiting kids lah, no discussion at all on this.

Do you not read my question? Do you know the content of their conversation? They're teacher and student relationship so most of it would naturally be school topics and since they're from the same church, church activities related. And the fact that he didn't get charged means he didn't commit anything that the law deemed inappropriate. That's all we get from the article. Unless you are an insider who knows their details better, you're simply judgemental and biased just because they knew each other before she is an adult.

 

[noname2016]

I don't think you all understand what grooming is lol. It's not simply age gap, ppl don't care if 80 year old marry 40 year old.

Problem with this is that they met when she was 13 and he waited "groom" her to be a couple at 18. This is classic grooming, adults exploiting kids. There is right and wrong to be judged on this, simply due to her being a 13 year old kid.

Groomers do marry them, see celine dion case too(12 year old and 38 year old)

Yeah sounds like he was just waiting for her to turn 18. kinda gross if I’ve a daughter.

 

[noname2016]

Do you not read properly? It's not age gap when it's adult, not when it involves kids.

Moi already say if 40 year old and 80 year old is not a problem cuz they're adults. 13 year old and adult is a problem cuz she is a kid. Adult and adult is not grooming.

Simi bias perspective? It's really disturbing to moi that ppl like you and in thread are ok with this. Adults shouldn't be exploiting kids lah, no discussion at all on this.

Yeah and the guy still write 18 no toxic feminism and get them while they are young . Wahlao sounds like those incels. Might as well go camp at sec/jc. Doesn’t realize how disgusting he sound.

 

[fandango]

No lar, this is not grooming lar.

If this is grooming, then Leonardo Dicaprio is Pedobear liao.

 

[chaiscool]

Do you not read my question? Do you know the content of their conversation? They're teacher and student relationship so most of it would naturally be school topics and since they're from the same church, church activities related. And the fact that he didn't get charged means he didn't commit anything that the law deemed inappropriate. That's all we get from the article. Unless you are an insider who knows their details better, you're simply judgemental and biased just because they knew each other before she is an adult.

That's how grooming works, i really don't think you understand what is grooming at all.

You think grooming is adult having inappropriate convo with kids? Or showing her his pp pics ah?

He didn't get charged doesn't mean it's not inappropriate. You can attack someone and cause permanent damage, and judge only give you warning, doesn't mean it's right thing to do. A lot of things legal, can be unethical and wrong too.

 

[ghregular]

hey!
its their lives man!
just dont make another news later
cry f cry m

 

[chaiscool]

No lar, this is not grooming lar.

If this is grooming, then Leonardo Dicaprio is Pedobear liao.

Lol why can't he be pedo? Celeb can do no wrong ah? Holier than thou cuz celeb ah

 

[2_sillies_trap]

I don't think you all understand what grooming is lol. It's not simply age gap, ppl don't care if 80 year old marry 40 year old.

Problem with this is that they met when she was 13 and he waited "groom" her to be a couple at 18. This is classic grooming, adults exploiting kids. There is right and wrong to be judged on this, simply due to her being a 13 year old kid.

Groomers do marry them, see celine dion case too(12 year old and 38 year old)

Hanor, I see those US reality tv show "catch the pedo bear", they also neh piak piak, just got off the phone, first time go into her Haus is consider pedo grooming leow.

 

[chaiscool]

Yeah and the guy still write 18 no toxic feminism and get them while they are young . Wahlao sounds like those incels. Might as well go camp at sec/jc. Doesn’t realize how disgusting he sound.

Yalor really disturbing so many edwmer are like this kind

 

[glarerder]

That's how grooming works, i really don't think you understand what is grooming at all.

You think grooming is adult having inappropriate convo with kids? Or showing her his pp pics ah?

He didn't get charged doesn't mean it's not inappropriate. You can attack someone and cause permanent damage, and judge only give you warning, doesn't mean it's right thing to do. A lot of things legal, can be unethical and wrong too.

Again you did not answer my question. That says it all. You're biased. Age limit is a social construct. That's why different countries have different age limits. She has 3 children now and she is not a single mother. They didn't do anything inappropriate to get charged for it. Only people who are judgemental would consider this wrong.

 

[nonameless]

Grooming is grooming ,bbfa no wife can groom 13 yo until 18 then marry ... Like lock in a penny stock then wait till the right time then harvest

 

[Baldylocks]

This guy is like EDMW idol. Date, marry, creampie xmm.

 

[*Sisyphus*]

That's why i always say go church!!!

 

[keytheboogamer]

Sauce

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There's no grooming hokay!?!? Chiu jelly the man boh?

Simi grooming lah, so 难听

This is called pre-order。
大佬 Leonardo DiCaprio always does that.

 

[Baldylocks]

You don't even know the content of their conversation and yet you classify their relationship as grooming solely by their age gap while saying it's not simply age gap? You're contradicting yourself. Perhaps have some proof that he's indeed grooming her first. Else it's just your biased perspective.

Maybe he salty someone was able to snag a xmm.