[ZB, MSNews] Woman publicly shames vice-principal husband for affair with student’s mother

[Redcapiscum]

Wanna Lust from mistress
Wanna Love from wifey when sick or need help to take care of him.

This type only making use of the other party. They just want to feel loved, but they dont love equally

 

[KENNNL]

can ask tcj for advice liao

 

[BleuBunni]

if I remember correctly, later that it was encik that was posted to such roles and they were called operations manager... not sure when the title got upgraded to VP (admin) and is officer doing...

Precisely. That was my impression as well. There were VP admin back then already but they were definitely of better caliber and edu qualification as compared to those from SAF.

Most of these former SAF men brought their tai chi tactics and nonsense into the school culture and the way they talked…omg.

 

[wuyabo]

actually affair is private thing leh

between consenting adults it is not illegal at all

work is work why need to lose job over affair when it is not 1950s anymore?

going by this logic, divorce (which is legally worse than affair to a marriage) also need to lose job? if husband or wife always throw temper at home or never do household chores for females also need to lose job? if a female vp has too many bfs also need to lose job?

when does this madness end?

 

[Jude Raphael]

At the end of the day, there’ll always be that someone out there who is younger, more attractive, and everything that we are not.

Have we ever wondered how our partners view us too? Are we still who we once were when we were younger?

Going by that logic, when does it end then? We keep going for someone more attractive, younger and everything that our partner is not? No one seems to mention the hard work needed to maintain a relationship.

I don’t disagree that sometimes, there may be a feeling of disengagement between two parties over time.
Someone new comes along, changes that perception and it feels so refreshing of all a sudden. Point is, if we are never going to put in the work on our partners, the same would probably happen again and again..

 

[toolbox03]

My guess is this guy married the one who came along and then 32 years later, met the woman he truly like... 相逢恨晚

Many people are like this guy, Oh this age due to get marry, this age due to bto, this age due to have children.. Social pressure. And also scared to start new, thinking what if the next one is lousy?

Most likely not. Because by then you already know what you want.

Like you always like big neh neh one, then you married a airport thinking you will learn to love. Its impossible. Because inside you, you already know what type of woman you want.. Yet you go against your own instinct to marry one you want to learn to love.

That’s why the theory of no fish, prawn also good

 

[edmwing]

I have very bad impression of regulars from NS days. 9 out of 10 are jerks and cheat on their partner.

 

[sidewind]

actually affair is private thing leh

between consenting adults it is not illegal at all

work is work why need to lose job over affair when it is not 1950s anymore?

going by this logic, divorce (which is legally worse than affair to a marriage) also need to lose job? if husband or wife always throw temper at home or never do household chores for females also need to lose job? if a female vp has too many bfs also need to lose job?

when does this madness end?

It may not be something dimissable in most companies, but sensational news of a senior school staff involving a parent of 2 students from the same school makes his position untenable.

It's likely he wasn't dismissed but took upon himself to do the right thing, though it's more of a Hobson's choice.

 

[wuyabo]

It may not be something dimissable in most companies, but sensational news of a senior school staff involving a parent of a student makes his position untenable.

It's likely he wasn't dismissed but took upon himself to do the right thing, though it's more of a Hobson's choice.

a VP has a professional duty not to sleep with students and teachers (i think even teachers i dont think it is morally wrong or there is a code of conduct against it if there is no conflict of interest..i.e. the teacher is another school or a dept that doesnt really report to him etc)

there are many teachers couples or professors couples to be honest

but parents of students? i think it is fair game to be honest

or relatives of students or teachers

 

[wuyabo]

My guess is this guy married the one who came along and then 32 years later, met the woman he truly like... 相逢恨晚

Many people are like this guy, Oh this age due to get marry, this age due to bto, this age due to have children.. Social pressure. And also scared to start new, thinking what if the next one is lousy?

Most likely not. Because by then you already know what you want.

Like you always like big neh neh one, then you married a airport thinking you will learn to love. Its impossible. Because inside you, you already know what type of woman you want.. Yet you go against your own instinct to marry one you want to learn to love.

wow damn so deep but so true

 

[sidewind]

a VP has a professional duty not to sleep with students and teachers (i think even teachers i dont think it is morally wrong or there is a code of conduct against it if there is no conflict of interest..i.e. the teacher is another school or a dept that doesnt really report to him etc)

there are many teachers couples or professors couples to be honest

but parents of students? i think it is fair game to be honest

or relatives of students or teachers

Behind closed doors, away from media spotlight.

With a parent of a past student, maybe.

But with a current student, many possibility of unfair influence could be raised. Class posting, test paper leak, lenient marking, CCA/school team selection to name a few.

 

[tian_yibang]

Wah , just saw this MSnews "updated" juicy story abt them

They really brutal siol , even the sark and leek screenshot convo they publish to the whole for see

Just realized how "scary" our media can be

 

[tian_yibang]

Think the wifey really hv played too big fire riao, this saga hv even crossed to the other side of the "community" world

 

[eleewhm]

I agree with you. Saw the wife's photo. First of all, her earliest picture in her younger days already show that she wasn't in a healthy weight to begin with. Back then because of her youth, her facial appearance can still compensate her unhealthy body. I also noticed the last time she wore lipstick and put on make up was in 2016.

From 2016 till now, her face has changed due to age and most likely menopause which accelerate ageing, plus other factors which further gloomed her face, AND in addition to her unhealthy weight over the years, these issues all combine together make her look unpresentable.

Now with these stress of having to cope with her husband's affair and his poor English spelling, I believe will age her even more at a faster speed.

I hope she turn her life around, start by exercising, lowering her weight to a healthy level first.

世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人

 

[PaprikaSG]

I had listened to the wife's side of story, how about the husband's side of story?

Does he get to piak at home after child birth? I know a lot of couple no more piak after child birth/wife close factory.

Is the wife very dominating at home? Some zhabo like to overpower the husband and treat them like a dog.

If no piak and wife overpowering, then it's not hard to tell why husband eat outside.

 

[tian_yibang]

Done some googling, wah seh this news site also quite "brutal" with their reporting/publishing siol

Shall notch post the entire article here , chiu all go insai ownself see and chiu know what moi meant

The "damage" done by the wifey sexposing them in this saga think can nvr be mend alr



https://www.163.com/dy/article/JEUOT8JF0514CL19.html

 

[shoograd]

Why when want to sug lollipop need to wait until psle finish?
What is the relevance here??

 

[eleewhm]

Done some googling, wah seh this news site also quite "brutal" with their reporting/publishing siol

Shall notch post the entire article here , chiu all go insai ownself see and chiu know what moi meant

The "damage" done by the wifey sexposing them in this saga think can nvr be mend alr



https://www.163.com/dy/article/JEUOT8JF0514CL19.html

maybe this is a easier break for the male...
the guy stayed cause of "responsibilities" now this is exposed and at this stage .. there is nothing for him to loose ...

its the wife who now have to figure out how to get back on her feet on her own ... man are resilient .. they fall , they pick themselves up again , man have been suffering all alone and knows what to do ...

the wife has always been reliant on him .. and if they divorce .. the guy will be in a better place.. and not the lady

 

[tian_yibang]

maybe this is a easier break for the male...
the guy stayed cause of "responsibilities" now this is exposed and at this stage .. there is nothing for him to loose ...

its the wife who now have to figure out how to get back on her feet on her own ... man are resilient .. they fall , they pick themselves up again , man have been suffering all alone and knows what to do ...

the wife has always been reliant on him .. and if they divorce .. the guy will be in a better place.. and not the lady

Thats why moi say the wifey play fire too big alr

 

[eleewhm]

Thats why moi say the wifey play fire too big alr

i wonder what is the purpose ? to shame the man back .??? he wont ... no man will ...