in a household, to maintain a healthy rs, everyone has to contribute. including children
so i wouldn't say woman/man over value their contribution in a household. The cue is how everyone view each other contribution, whether they are of the same measurement by their own dictation and whether it has been respected/agreed upon.
a woman could have only done 20% of the housecleaning, the man does the 80%, end of the day how does she justified the lesser done and
the effort to cover also the recognition of the other party's effort. no contribution is more or less than the other
my late dad, who is 99% of the time not at home, would have just continue to handwash his clothes

My parents were divorce - reason was clear. by the time he truly realised, it was 20 years too late
@Velton that (abacus/washing board / liulian) is the joke to entertain us here.