Uhhhh
Based on posts , it's not he drove recklessly on that one day
He did it before too
Not arguing the point he drove recklessly. That one quite obvious. Maybe like the Reddit poster say (if true), maybe even got several times.
Then he cannot also be hardworking meh. Or driving recklessly means he never ever show care to his family before?
Another Reddit poster say "if one is hardworking and dedicated then one is allowed to behave like a spoiled entitled brat" -- clearly this statement is not true
No one is saying he is entitled to be a spoiled entitled brat, they are just remembering the kind things he did for them before.
If he did kind things before, cannot say meh? Have to diam diam meh? Also no.
So this person did something dangerous AND he also did good things before. Both can say. Ish simple like that.