Actually most friendships dun last

[radioshack]

Looking back at my past photos, I realised I dun keep in contact with alot of them anymore..just drifted away

 

[Wstc333]

both sides have to make effort to keep it if not sure drift apart de lor

 

[qhong61]

Looking back at my past photos, I realised I dun keep in contact with alot of them anymore..just drifted away

After wedding normally no more contact

 

[エステ好きな野郎]

yup, most don't. the ones that do need effort and they're the ones that matter the most.

 

[kreja]

Looking back at my past photos, I realised I dun keep in contact with alot of them anymore..just drifted away

No difference to me. I got no friends

 

[charliebrown]

all e same lah.. classmates, colleagues, neighbors.

 

[buttbERry]

its also about making the effort to maintain friendship

 

[CHINAUSA]

Normal... especially life after 40s... 50s...

Even if 1 is married, divorce ir BBFA. eventually ALL have to live alone...

 

[archie7]

Looking back at my past photos, I realised I dun keep in contact with alot of them anymore..just drifted away

Friendship is such a strange thing. Over the years, I’ve come to some conclusions about friendship: You can’t force a friendship. It’s either there or not and the desire to be friends has to be mutual. Sometimes, you outgrow a friend. Sometimes, the friend outgrows you. When that happens, let it slide. People change. You change. You shouldn’t feel guilty or take it personally when a friendship fizzles out. It’s okay to shed old friends. Maintaining a friendship that has become stale and suffocating is a waste of time for both of you. Life is short. It’s fine to move on. It’s okay to make new friends. The best thing about new friendships is how they don’t come with baggage. It’s a chance to start anew, to present yourself the way you want to be seen now, not how an old friend pictures you

 

[jack-320]

The only friend you need is boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife

Hard life truths

 

[begintoend]

If there is somehow a bond
it usually will last
but the bond thing is also too vague to justify for friendship

Anyway i believe ppl need a friend or more

Inb4 friends are overrated
I personally feel solo is overrated.

 

[Kaylin]

all relationships are exchange of value & benefit nia. how many actually maintain a friendship coz they genuinely like each other? who has the time & energy for that?

knowing this, i stopped investing in ppl.

 

[socratesg]

Huh ....actually those JC, poly, army or uni frens that you've made but subsequently drifted apart coz all of you were busy establishing your careers and building families.

Rest assured, you will reconnect with them again. When reach 40s and 50s, many parents will uplorry and you will receive regular text msgs out of the blue asking you to attend funeral wakes. That's where you will meet up with your old frens, again. It feels like reunion actually.

 

[randyap]

Try reading on confucianism concept of an ideal friendship. 君子之交淡如水。

 

[~sabaisabai~]

both sides have to make effort to keep it if not sure drift apart de lor

Yes. Mutual effort

 

[rachoon]

that's why we have edmw

 

[randyap]

Friendship is such a strange thing. Over the years, I’ve come to some conclusions about friendship: You can’t force a friendship. It’s either there or not and the desire to be friends has to be mutual. Sometimes, you outgrow a friend. Sometimes, the friend outgrows you. When that happens, let it slide. People change. You change. You shouldn’t feel guilty or take it personally when a friendship fizzles out. It’s okay to shed old friends. Maintaining a friendship that has become stale and suffocating is a waste of time for both of you. Life is short. It’s fine to move on. It’s okay to make new friends. The best thing about new friendships is how they don’t come with baggage. It’s a chance to start anew, to present yourself the way you want to be seen now, not how an old friend pictures you

No strings attached is the best. No hard feelings.

 

[NardinJohn]

Friend come and goes but is up to you whether do you want to maintain down or up side..

 

[harbinger255]

Everybody drift off on their own paths, no need to hold it against anyone.... when your paths crosses again then rekindle the friendship lo...

 

[orpisia]

Who cares .