At his mother's behest, he married a 26-year-old Chinese national within weeks of being introduced. He was 53 and never intended to get married

[Itsnotfunny]

saddest for a dad is not knowing who will take care of the kid when he is gone. Many cases of both jumping together.

 

[nasilemak100]

i can only say....

1) don't plan to have kids after 40. unless u r multimillionaire. always got risk of birth defects due to high age

2) dun give in to peer pressure, society pressure or pressure from parents....in the end the one suffering is u only. everyone else will just move on with their own lives....or even avoid u now because scare u go borrow money from them or ask them to help take care of ur kid once u r gone. very jialat.

3) what is worst is will ur kid ask himself why he is born this way? could it be prevented? why did it happened? because my parent could not take the peer pressure and society pressure and now everyone in the family has to suffer?

 

[quirkyhill]

if u are high SES, u age like wine, else its just a messed up old man

Age like wine is just looks, and high ses usually got more money to maintain
Eg DiCaprio high ses but never age like wine

 

[runny yolk]

Here full of guys saying men age like wine

nope. Everyone ages like milk except those rich and/or genetically blessed

Apparently they never see before guys at 35 already got beer belly that can rival pregnant ladies

 

[TimsTom]

See la.
Grandma persuade bbfa to marry tiong wife...
Let the grandma take care...won't be long anyway if she's not yet mati

I dont think the grandma (older than this uncle at least 20years) can take care of and handle the child when he kicks up a fuss.

Cannot understand how a mother can abandon her child.

Not all mums are saints.
世上只有妈妈好 is a fiction kid song. Though i agree that there are definitely selfless mums too.

 

[congster2]

Jialat, SG is just a stepping stone in the eye of many foreigners. Many came for the sake of making money and getting PR. If things goes south, just pack up and leave.

To have to marry a 53 year old 遭老头, the 26 y.o. also quite poor thing.

 

[congster2]

Cannot understand how a mother can abandon her child.

She's 26. Basically her life was over before it started.

 

[psyger-zero]

haha,wc can claw even a man's cpf to reinburse wife.yet in this case cant stop wife running road back to mainland.misalignment of priorities here?man serve ns for fxxx?

 

[tarui04]

Many such cases around. Old parents, special needs kid. When parents pass on, kid unable to sustain nor live independently.

I don't think the numbers are insignificant. It's a growing societal issue that needs to be looked into.

No need lah. GE manifesto never write, GE still 5 years away.

 

[tarui04]

Cannot understand how a mother can abandon her child.

If the father abandoned the child can write long stories about how men are irresponsible. But it's fine in this case

 

[worldmap777]

dun listen to boomer parents. they know nuts.

 

[popsune1]

Happy father's day.

 

[TimsTom]

saddest for a dad is not knowing who will take care of the kid when he is gone. Many cases of both jumping together.

Probably be sent into special needs home when the father pass away

 

[FireEmblem]

Andy lau ?

Pls lah of course apply to normal guys.

Dun talk bout those celebs with tons of money that even if something goes wrong have the finance power to take care of it.

Normal guy age 45 have kid then bring the kid up to adulthood already age 66.

 

[PikaPika33]

the famous edmw never come in say the answer to all these is dare dare pump a few more out again?

always preach no matter what just keep kids, dont think too mich

 

[econ food]

i can only say....

1) don't plan to have kids after 40. unless u r multimillionaire. always got risk of birth defects due to high age

2) dun give in to peer pressure, society pressure or pressure from parents....in the end the one suffering is u only. everyone else will just move on with their own lives....or even avoid u now because scare u go borrow money from them or ask them to help take care of ur kid once u r gone. very jialat.

3) what is worst is will ur kid ask himself why he is born this way? could it be prevented? why did it happened? because my parent could not take the peer pressure and society pressure and now everyone in the family has to suffer?

This wan.. then stop at 2 is based on wad ?

 

[econ food]

Pls lah of course apply to normal guys.

Dun talk bout those celebs with tons of money that even if something goes wrong have the finance power to take care of it.

Normal guy age 45 have kid then bring the kid up to adulthood already age 66.

So it advice to get marry younger. Think 18 xmm can all consider married laio. Kids forward grow yo. Mum still 40..

 

[AUTUMN&WINTER]

She's 26. Basically her life was over before it started.

No one forced her to get married. She made the choice and must be responsible for her choice.

 

[Philipkee]

If the father abandoned the child can write long stories about how men are irresponsible. But it's fine in this case

I hope he is not paying alimony to her also

 

[tokong]

He loves his wife very much. They still have a family picture on top of the sound system.