At his mother's behest, he married a 26-year-old Chinese national within weeks of being introduced. He was 53 and never intended to get married

[Monstruo^]

Honestly… his mom pwned him gaogao.

At 53yo, the mom wanted the man to marry. Not sure how the mom force or what lah.

Marry sua, but the problem ish the wife ish 26yo, he ish 53. Almost 30 years gap.

30 years gap nvm, sua. I believe love doesn’t care about age gap or gender or simi. But they knew each other probably from those agency type. So they were not those get to know each other for some time and fall in love. They ish the type that need external party to link them together, find and marry. No foundation at all. Few weeks marry liao.

Then marry liao sua! Still have kid.

Have kid sua. Then the kid has challenges.

Special kid sua. But the wife run off. (Actually can understand why also, somemore she so young, imagine she needs to care for the kid and the husband with cancer for the rest of her life).

Then he quit his job to take care of his special kid.

So in summary, the man was divorced (small matter), got a special kid to take care of (big matter), quit his job so no income liao (also big matter), and he himself also got stage 2 prostate cancer (big matter). Walau eh.

Really lah the mom pwned him.

 

[JonWeak]

If I'm 53 and unmarried I'd rather use that money to chiong

 

[JonWeak]

erm lemme get this right

he married coz his mum psycho him to?

wtfbbq did i just read

Mommy boy lor

 

[crimsontactics]

Honestly… his mom pwned him gaogao.

At 53yo, the mom wanted the man to marry. Not sure how the mom force or what lah.

Marry sua, but the problem ish the wife ish 26yo, he ish 53. Almost 30 years gap.

30 years gap nvm, sua. But they knew each other probably from those agency type. So they were not those get to know each other for some time and fall in love. They ish the type that need external party to link them together, find and marry. No foundation at all.

Then marry liao sua! Still have kid. Then the kid has challenges.

Then sua. But the wife run off. Actually can understand why also.

Then soon, the man got prostate cancer.

I think his life got no marry fate de Bro Monstruo^!

Force liao end up even worse than single!

That's why life cannot force de!

 

[TheSilentBang]

really unfortunate. He could have just live a peaceful single life

 

[Monstruo^]

I think his life got no marry fate de Bro Monstruo^!

Force liao end up even worse than single!

That's why life cannot force de!

Edited with more details.

Not about his marriage status sia. He can actually stay as BBFA and even if got prostate cancer stage 2, he only needs to manage himself.

Now? Walau eh needs to care for special kid and his cancer and he is getting old also at 60+. And I wonder if his mom ish still alive, need to care for her also? And no income liao still need to spend money on his own cancer and his son.

I feel sorry for him. Mybfd!

 

[divineone]

Whether they had kid or not also likely won't be together. With the kid just made his life worse.

 

[yesman2978]

Thought 高龄产妇 then got risk. What have it got to do with men. If any, think men determine boy or girl.

Anyway, think if not wrong, every child got half the genes from both parent. And not all the genes are used. Its all a lucky draw which of it will be used to form the 20 plus from each parent. So there might be not so good one in the mix that get pass on and drawn out.

Sperm quality also drops with age

 

[Itsthatguy]

At certain angle, the son looks like the Japanese food blogger in sg.

 

[PikaPika33]

aiya the mother cannot really see that badly ba

alot of time, people old liao their logic all fail
only can think of what they want

maybe she always wanted her son to merry

and the son, gave in to her dying wish

not ideal, but it happens

too bad now 3 person suffering

thats why those keep forciing people to merry and poop out kids, without considering is very iiresponsible

 

[congster2]

No one forced her to get married. She made the choice and must be responsible for her choice.

If she was from a village, there isn't much of a choice.

 

[congster2]

it was an investment decision, if the child was normal, things might have turned out well in the long run, but it went south real quick, such is life

The guy was so old. He could have been the cause of the extra gene problem.

 

[PikaPika33]

I wonder where is that character now...

the legend usually very vocal 1

 

[Monstruo^]

wow...another thread

assuming the kid is normal, I wonder what is his plan on having a newborn at 53yo
is he planning to work until 70 to support his kid until finish university?

I find that sometimes ppl acted on impulse and nv think far ahead for life changing decisions
maybe these folks have the "leave everything to fate...it will eventually worked out" mentality

True also.

Ok at 53, they got kid.

Then imagine at 71, the kid ish 18yo.
Then at 74, his kid 21yo.

Parents should support a child till at least 18-21yo. Like that also sibei 几够力一下 for him.

His mom, where ish she sia. Really hai si ren.

 

[Monstruo^]

I recall some people here had said that one should just go ahead and have kids, and things would naturally fall in place. Don't need to think so much.

Yeah. Right.

Ijjit a particular JHK who always bo dai bo ji create threads like a siaokia and tell people to give birth? Now worried no one sees him at nursing home.

All these boomers really hai si ren.

 

[Zappalapa]

fathers day...they probably wanna share this touching story, but end up the man's background becomes the main discussion point.

agree with many here...he probably would have led a peaceful life if he didnt listen to his mum, but he probably had no regret bringing his son to this world nevertheless.

 

[Monstruo^]

His mom must be thinking of getting his son a younger wife so that there will be someone to look after her son after she passes.

Some asian moms jin jialat. Wife ish like playing a nanny role like that.

 

[TopGun]

Some asian moms jin jialat. Wife ish like playing a nanny role like that.

That's the problem when thinking don't change with the passage of time.

 

[TopGun]

Ijjit a particular JHK who always bo dai bo ji create threads like a siaokia and tell people to give birth? Now worried no one sees him at nursing home.

All these boomers really hai si ren.

I remember that thread on trusting own kids for medication over helper or nursing home. But ehhh the kids don't need to work one meh?

 

[Monstruo^]

If kid was normal wife would have stayed. Wife is the backup plan lor

Actually hard to say also. Later on the man got cancer leh.

The foundation of love ish not there in the first place, she may not have stood by him.

And it is because the foundation of love is not there, their marriage ish just a transaction, she probably didn’t feel much for the kid that they both created. And once found out got issue, she left. Too much burden to carry in her 20s.

If the kid ish created with a man she loves, a woman die die also will protect one even if he is a 渣男。