[CONSOLIDATED] Lchlch's office issues

Lchlch

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Many probably heard n read this sentences thousands times.

Yes, you, me, they, everybody read before N heard before.

But do you ever really experience this before in your life?

Whereby a colleague that works together, no quarrel, helping one another out, sacrifices, give and take, laugh, talk crap, ...suddenly burn bridge on you When bad things happen to the colleague?

The feeling of iin such situation is terrible, you feel betrayal, you feel lousy, you feel fook,.

What happen to your colleague that suddenly become bad person?

And you started to ask yourself, why like that?

Your comments please.
Take good care of yourself.
 

highsulphur

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Well of course if it's a either you die or he dies situation, he will choose himself over you. That's natural. But that doesn't mean he won't help you if he can when he's a good colleague/friend. I got my current job (and past) due to recommendations by ex colleagues.
 

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Many probably heard n read this sentences thousands times.

Yes, you, me, they, everybody read before N heard before.

But do you ever really experience this before in your life?

Whereby a colleague that works together, no quarrel, helping one another out, sacrifices, give and take, laugh, talk crap, ...suddenly burn bridge on you When bad things happen to the colleague?

The feeling of iin such situation is terrible, you feel betrayal, you feel lousy, you feel fook,.

What happen to your colleague that suddenly become bad person?

And you started to ask yourself, why like that?

Your comments please.
Take good care of yourself.
Don’t say colleague la.

My father used to say if you can have five good friends who stick with you for life through thick and thin, you are very lucky liao.

I told a friend this and he said my father was wrong. If you can find ONE, you are very lucky liao. Some people never find any, even though they are married
 

Hyruga

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Humans are weak and fragile and will sin.

In a desperate situation, some will choose themselves over others.
 

lkong

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when you young, just started out to work, you easily feel other ppl are good to you

in reality, all are good until you have conflict of interest. there is no friend at work. those u started out gossip together, one day will use what you said against you. if anyone reading this still young, dont 'talk heart' with working people and dont friend

as you age, you rather just go office, do your stuff, then go home.

one of the reason u are more likely to have buddy from outside or those since school, because u dont work at the same place together.
 

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It’s better to ask what have you done to others than to ask what others have done to you.

Like that hopefully wont feel so miserable.

Don't say colleagues, sometimes friends also like that.
Friends?

Family members too. Once the money at stake is more than certain amount (usually million and higher), you will see Family members fight each other for a share of the inheritance
 

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Last time got a female colleague gave out so many signals that she's obviously interested in me (that even a blind man could see)

Then when I call her out that I know she's interested in me and I confess my lustful intentions to her, she jitao 180 siam me far far

Wahh, u think she like that do unfair to me anot??
 

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Many probably heard n read this sentences thousands times.

Yes, you, me, they, everybody read before N heard before.

But do you ever really experience this before in your life?

Whereby a colleague that works together, no quarrel, helping one another out, sacrifices, give and take, laugh, talk crap, ...suddenly burn bridge on you When bad things happen to the colleague?

The feeling of iin such situation is terrible, you feel betrayal, you feel lousy, you feel fook,.

What happen to your colleague that suddenly become bad person?

And you started to ask yourself, why like that?

Your comments please.
Take good care of yourself.
Because appraisal is coming..
 

usarmy

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Well of course if it's a either you die or he dies situation, he will choose himself over you. That's natural. But that doesn't mean he won't help you if he can when he's a good colleague/friend. I got my current job (and past) due to recommendations by ex colleagues.

Sometime cannot too keh kao... Give and take...


Sent from EDMWER!
 

106gunner

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Many probably heard n read this sentences thousands times.

Yes, you, me, they, everybody read before N heard before.

But do you ever really experience this before in your life?

Whereby a colleague that works together, no quarrel, helping one another out, sacrifices, give and take, laugh, talk crap, ...suddenly burn bridge on you When bad things happen to the colleague?

The feeling of iin such situation is terrible, you feel betrayal, you feel lousy, you feel fook,.

What happen to your colleague that suddenly become bad person?

And you started to ask yourself, why like that?

Your comments please.
Take good care of yourself.
Not only colleague, such thing could also happen in family be it sibling, parent, children

Nowaday family bonding is not as strong as last time and majority are selfish

Ppl only friend or approach you when they need help or wanna borrow money

Not to mention colleague where some see you as threat
 

Mila Azul

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This idiom offers a striking representation of my colleagues.



The idiom "two-faced, three knives" (两面三刀, liǎng miàn sān dāo) in Chinese refers to a two-faced or double-dealing person. It describes someone who acts friendly to your face but then talks badly about you behind your back or engages in other forms of deception and betrayal
 
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