If a girl likes a guy, it's easy mode for the guy

Kaylin

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thats where the guy takes the girl for granted coz he likes to chase & the feeling of mystery & unpredictability.
 

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Correct? Then it's better to wait for a girl to chase than to chase a girl who is not interested in you and hoping she will like you back.

Of course, if girl has a positive impression of you, you chase her two times she will just go out with you. Don't say you don't believe in love at first sight because that is the fact. Girls will always deny this but they immediately go out with you if you are their type.
 

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Maybe is yandere. Then guy is gg

A yandere is a Japanese character archetype who appears sweet and affectionate at first, but whose love becomes so intense that it turns into a dangerous, obsessive, and violent mental fixation. The term is a portmanteau of the Japanese words yanderu, meaning "to be sick," and deredere, meaning "lovestruck".

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i had to reject a few. i think got at least 4?

those that i went out with. nearly a dozen? i dont want to count. but end up not really suitable. because when a girl likes you, she likes your facade. she likes what she thinks you are. i was abit beng and introverted last time. so naturally, educated girls found me mysterious and intriguing.

but for most ppl, how they carry themselves socially isnt the real them. and either the girl likes you for who you really are... or she learns the truth and give you up ...

and you end up more hurt because she had squeezed into your heart and now there's a gaping bleeding hole where she used to be

as i adulted... i realized there's no point changing who you are. because leopards dont change their spots... same for semenboy ...

so just find someone you are compatible with really. no need go for chiobu. no need go for dua liap.
 

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Correct? Then it's better to wait for a girl to chase than to chase a girl who is not interested in you and hoping she will like you back.
yes, it is like a goal pole without the goalkeeper.
 

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Correct? Then it's better to wait for a girl to chase than to chase a girl who is not interested in you and hoping she will like you back.

What do you have to offer for girls to like you?
 

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i had to reject a few. i think got at least 4?

those that i went out with. nearly a dozen? i dont want to count. but end up not really suitable. because when a girl likes you, she likes your facade.
U shared a similar thought as my bro, he said who he think he is is different from who his student thinks he is, versus who his friends thought he is … he said each one only knows a certain him that will behave that way in a certain setting.
I told him I’m same at home or outside … just more relaxed and shabby and he disagreed
she likes what she thinks you are. i was abit beng and introverted last time. so naturally, educated girls found me mysterious and intriguing.

but for most ppl, how they carry themselves socially isnt the real them.
At least not fully
and either the girl likes you for who you really are... or she learns the truth and give you up ...

and you end up more hurt because she had squeezed into your heart and now there's a gaping bleeding hole where she used to be

as i adulted... i realized there's no point changing who you are. because leopards dont change their spots... same for semenboy ...
I feel while people don’t easily change, I also do see miracles happen with former villains. So I trust that if you have the will and God’s power you can change
so just find someone you are compatible with really.
Agree
no need go for chiobu. no need go for dua liap.
But must find each other looks ok, imagine marrying her then wake up n get nightmare: Not possible to live with n people generally want to self benefit
 
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